Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I am 31 and pregnant with my second child (not married). My family is die hard Christians, who are course right, because God is with them. So this x-mas while they sit there all hurt because I am so disrespectful (they don't take boundry setting very well) and they tell me what is best for my daughter and how I will regret my life when i see the light. When they wonder how I could be such a hurtful person to them... What should my stragedy be? My plan of action???

There is a strong chance they won't say anything, and will just try to 'love me to God'. But I am pregnant and proud of my belly with my child in it. I am proud of my already born daughter that they accept because it is too late.

They may not say anything, but I will feel it. I always do feel the vibes. But if they do lay a guilt trip or try to manipulate my feelings, what should my game plan be?

2006-12-18 18:10:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

http://www.tiffany.com/shared/images/products/zoom_images/21344281_xl.jpg

We have this inside corny thing (we both admit it) of saying to the moon and back. I couldn't find moon stuff but I think the stars will do the trick. If you were a college aged girl would you like these and wear them?

2006-12-18 18:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, God gave them boobs. What's wrong with men being attracted to them.
QUESTION: I guess what I'm trying to say is, is it wrong? I always feel guilty if i see a picture because the Church says not to. But who's it hurting when i see them???

2006-12-18 18:09:37 · 20 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I feel like my friendship with my best friend is fading and I feel like we're not as close as we used to be. I wish more than any thing we could be close friends again. I want to talk to my friend about this but I don't know how to tell him?

2006-12-18 18:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by flower 2 in Friends

First question is pretty self explanitory.

Second question, theres a waitress at the bar. Been lightly talking to her for about 2 months, she is very very friendly, gives me hugs when I come in and when I leave. and likes a bit of physical contact (hand on shoulder when she walks by etc..) Is she interested? or just being friendly?

2006-12-18 18:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 18:06:48 · 33 answers · asked by WorriedHubby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I still need help figuring out what to buy my boyfriend for christmas (and im going shopping tomorrow morning). PLEASE HELP!

Ive already bought some cute lingerie to wear for him, but I also want to get him something nice. Im thinking around $60, maybe alittle more. He likes to paint/draw. I thought maybe a watch, but i never see him wear one. A lighter cause he smokes, but I dont know. I even thought a nice pocket knife or something, but nothing seems right. Nothing has really stood out that just seemed like the perfect gift for him.

Any suggestions?

2006-12-18 18:06:20 · 19 answers · asked by Immortal Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I've aready begun feeling bad about leaving for college in San Francisco. Does this mean I should stay home? I mostly want to stay home because I don't want to lose touch with my siblings (they are thirteen and eleven). My brother is a bad influence on them and I don't really want them around that without me. Please help.

2006-12-18 18:05:42 · 8 answers · asked by april.may 3 in Family

I'M GETTING TO MY THANK YOU CARDS FROM OUR WEDDING, AND SOME PEOPLE (THAT WERE NOT THERE, FAMILY THAT SENT A CHECK) AND SINCE IVE NEVER MET THEM- I SORT OF FORGOT IF I SENT THEM ONE OR NOT... I DONT WAN TTO SEND IT TO THEM TWICE, BUT I ALSO DONT WANT TO NOT SEND THEM A CARD... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-12-18 18:04:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It is only four months cant get over it friends say go out with other girls but I would feel so guilty. What should I do??????

2006-12-18 18:03:47 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

he is evil and hates pugs and pitbulls.

2006-12-18 18:03:38 · 6 answers · asked by woo-lee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy who I really like. We've had one short conversation and we will be going on a weekend trip next month (a group of people are going) The problem is, that I've had one in person conversation and one on the phone about the trip, but every time he sees me he doesn't say anything. I've caught him looking at me when I'm not looking, and he definitely notices me when I walk into the room (we met at church), he smiles but we haven't talked since those 2 conversations. It's driving me crazy because I really like him, but I can't tell if he likes me. Help!

2006-12-18 18:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by serval25 1 in Singles & Dating

THERE IS A SONG AND I REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE NAME IS OF THE SONG AND THE ARTIST


YOU ARE THE SOMEWHAT FOR ME
YOU ARE THE SOMEWHAT FOR ME
AND YOU FOREVER BE RITE HERE WITH ME
YOU MADE ME FEEL LIKE I WAS NUMBER ONE IN YOUR LIFE
GIVE YOU EVERYTHING I COULD
I DID MORE THEN I WOMEN SHOULD
BUT NOW IT ALL SEEMS THAT ALL JUST A WASTE OF TIME
CUZ YOU JUST GOT UP AND WALKED AWAY
BUT THERE GOONA BE A BRIGHTER DAY
YOU ARE THE SOMEWHAT FOR ME
BUT YOU BE FOREVER RITE HERE WITH ME
BUT I GUESS I WAS WORNG
BECAUSE THE TIME WILL GO AND THIS PAIN IS SO STRONG
CUZ I
I FEEL LIKE I WANNA DIE BOY
WHY DID YOU HAVE LIE
CUZ NO ONE BELIEVES EVERY WORD YOU SAY
I GUESS I WAS FOOL TO BELIEVE
THAT YOU WERE SO IN LOVE WITH ME
EVERYONE SAYS YOU WERE NO GOOD


****** COULD SOMEONE SEND ME THE REAL LYRICS AND SONG ARTIST PLEASE PEOPLE. I TRYED TYPING IN THE LYRICS TO THE SONG AND IT HAS NO SEARCH FOR IT. SO PEOPLE I KNOW SOMEONE HAS HEAR THIS SONG ALREADY!!!

2006-12-18 18:03:03 · 1 answers · asked by princess1001 2 in Singles & Dating

Im depressed too of not getting proper replies and Im not able to concentrate on my studies thus getting not so good marks in Internals and exams...

2006-12-18 18:02:22 · 12 answers · asked by nagaraj_vivek 1 in Friends

2006-12-18 17:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by ed 1 in Singles & Dating

NOT BEEN WITH HIM TOO LONG!ANY SUGGESTIONS?

2006-12-18 17:58:42 · 7 answers · asked by xeozex 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 17:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

2006-12-18 17:55:36 · 18 answers · asked by Spliff08069 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy who is 31 and a private in the army, now Ive never feared anyone's anger or for my life until I seen him get so mad that I thought he was gonna hit me or do worse, what do I do about that?

2006-12-18 17:55:11 · 6 answers · asked by Dani021 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 17:53:00 · 14 answers · asked by barbara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very mad and about to explode, so please answer quick and please have a good answer. get me back!

2006-12-18 17:52:35 · 5 answers · asked by girly123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, I want to know "what kind of husband you prefer?"

2006-12-18 17:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by SimpleGuy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't graduate from college with any fancy technology oriented major, just a simple BA in something i dont even use. I don't have job cause i'm having a lot of trouble finding one, and i'm not a communicative person, i'm a shy person. I just sense it in my father that he thinks im a failure even though he doesn't say it . My father is an immigrant from mexico and he was the success story in his family, he worked since young ..accomplished the most in his family coming to the usa and buying ahouse, making money, taking care of his parents financially and even helping all the other family members..and so on. But then he sees me, and i'm a nobody. right now i don't have a job but i'm going to probably end up with a simple office job but he expected alot more. wow that feels bad. But i can't do nothing, i'm not the kind he wants me to be. perhaps i dont' have the success he had cause i'm shy. should i feel bad, or let it just be?

2006-12-18 17:49:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

chosen? Or, maybe like the last tree on the lot bearing the burden of a fresh blanket of snow? When there's no one loving you, this is how you feel.

2006-12-18 17:49:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 17:49:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad hate my bf and thinks hes a total dumbass.
my bf isnt good at being introduced.when i took him to my parents house he hit his head on the door frame ( hes 6'8)
and laughed like and idiot saying h remeberd something.
abd he kept falling the whole time ( his feet are really small for a guy his hight ).
and then my dad started interigating him;
dad : how much do you make a year ?
my bf : i forgot...
dad : what are your entinions with my daughter ?
my bf : umm.. well what do you want them to be ?
dad : do you pay taxes ?
my bf : there to hard for me so my friends do them for me...
daddy : (0_0)
me : umm... baby why dont you go play withb the dog hes in the back yard.

did he really make that much of a bad empression on my dad ??
if you where my dad would you let him be with me ???

2006-12-18 17:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf said on phone that he wants to take me on date today and after that he said it will be in a hotel room .then he said we will have that also.did he talk abt sex i dont understand.and if he is than wat should i wear that will be easy and sexy

2006-12-18 17:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also wats the average height (in cm's) for a guy? and would girls find me height ugly?

2006-12-18 17:47:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 17:45:40 · 18 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

My marriage seems really good. But recently my husband bought a laptop for himself instead of us sharing my computer. Thats cool. But now I am locked out of it. I can only get on through the user name he created for me which keeps all his documents and history private. He also says he doesn't use messenger, but the other morning I kept hearing what sounded like someone sending him message after message. That is why I noticed I was locked out.

I have to admit that I have unknown email accounts (always have had 3 or 4 I hardly ever use for surfing reasons) that he has never known the passwords of or maybe does'nt know they exist. I also recently changed all my email passwords to private ones since I feel my accounts are mine. So for that, it is hard to accuse him for blocking me. But he is able to get on my computer any time and see my surfing history, documents, favorites and the like.

So should I be concerned or do you have a solution to our recent problem?

2006-12-18 17:45:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce