I met a guy who I really like. We've had one short conversation and we will be going on a weekend trip next month (a group of people are going) The problem is, that I've had one in person conversation and one on the phone about the trip, but every time he sees me he doesn't say anything. I've caught him looking at me when I'm not looking, and he definitely notices me when I walk into the room (we met at church), he smiles but we haven't talked since those 2 conversations. It's driving me crazy because I really like him, but I can't tell if he likes me. Help!
2006-12-18 18:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by serval25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, try to gauge from the signs he throws at u.. such as smiling at u, catching him staring at u and then he looks away, teasing u, trying to get ur attention...etc...
try ignoring him a few days, and see what he does..
u know he likes u when he txts u bak wen u txt him...
he feels bad when u ignore him..he will ask u the reason for ur beahviour as such..
he wanna hang out with u as much as possible..
he will want to know why u r sad..and try to console u when u r feeling down..
gd luck,
2006-12-18 18:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like the trip away is the perfect time to corner him, but if that's too long to wait, just start a casual conversation after church about the trip that should get the ball rolling! Good luck!
2006-12-18 18:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is really shy. You should break the ice and simply say "hello" the next time you two are in the same room. A simple comment and a smile can do wonders to get a conversation started. He may be waiting for you to get things rolling.
2006-12-18 18:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by idahoturkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just shy. Give him time he will come around that is if he truly likes you. Don't push things cause you might look desperate to him.. Good luck
2006-12-18 18:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like everyone says he is shy and you should go up and talk to him.plus you never know he maybe thinking and feeling the same way you are.so take the upper hand and approach him first then let everything carry on from there.
2006-12-18 18:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he gets nervous and shy when your around. Just go up to him and talk to him! Its the only way to cure your insanity over this.
good luck
2006-12-18 18:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Immortal Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man is looking at u it doesn't necesserelly mean he is fond of u. people have eyes, eyes for looking. i look at men and women and children - if they re cute i like to look at them. it doesn't make me a lesbian or a child molester - i just like to look at beautiful things. i don't feel anything towards those people, i just like how they look. so maybe your man just likes how u look. it doesn't mean he wants to marry u and live happily ever after
ps. and there is no such thing as a shy man. if a man likes u he will come no matter what. if a man is "shy" it means he doesn't like u enough
2006-12-18 18:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can go and talk to him.
maybe he is shy.
well, i used to be one of those guys. specially when i'm around someone i like. i couldnt talk, i couldnt do anything. my mind was just stay still, didnt want to work.
anyway, dont give up....talk to him often...then you'll get more information. dont rush it though...take your time
good luck
2006-12-18 18:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by the_justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shy and you are gonna need to take the initiative if you want anything out of him.
2006-12-18 18:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go up to him at speak woman!
2006-12-18 18:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋