It is only four months cant get over it friends say go out with other girls but I would feel so guilty. What should I do??????
2006-12-18 18:03:47 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take time. the wounds would heal. im sure that she wants you to be happy even though she's not going to be with you anymore. don't rush yourself to fall in love so quickly. although you need to move on.
2006-12-18 22:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by kireiicutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my gosh, you are soo woderful, why can't I find someone like you. Don't feel guilty, the one you loved would want you to be happy. Say a prayer to God for Him to ease your pain and ask Him to put someone in your life that you can talk to about this. Remember, there are others out there that this has happen to also. If you can't talk to anyone, try writing all your feelings down on paper. God will give you the strength to make it through this. When the time is right, you will know and you will go out with someone else again.
2006-12-18 18:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take a while for you to feel comfortable enough to go out with other girls. Losing love is hard on a person but to lose it this way is very difficult. It may help you to just develop a friendship with someone who you can talk with and learn to gradually get over what has happened to you. Be honest if you chose to make a friend with a woman this way. Let her know right away that you are interested only in friendship. Take your time and don't try to force yourself to get back out there like you just broke up with someone. It will take a while. Good Luck to you and i wish you well.
2006-12-18 18:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easier said than done - life goes on, it's not the end of the world. Time will heal all wounds, but you have first to decide to let it go! To live the rest of your life feeling guilty/hurt or live life as per normal - it's all entirely up to you. You chose. It's a beautiful life out there, if you give yourself a chance. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. None but yourself can free your mind :-)
2006-12-18 18:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faith. Family. Friends.
As for the guilt - do you really believe that your love was so selfish that they did not want you to be happy?
Take your time to grieve - and yes, 4 months is awfully soon. I'd wait at least 6 months, maybe a year or more - but don't spend the rest of your life trapped because of "guilt."
If they loved you, they want you to finish LIVING before you die as well. (and you will die, so get over that "eww, what a horrid thing to say" now. You'll feel better.)
2006-12-18 18:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down a daily list of things to do and accomplish. Keep moving forward. You dont need to go out with other girls now...give yourself a good long mourning period, ok? Im soooo sorry for you hurt/loss! Take care.
2006-12-18 18:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry Rocky! Time heals all wounds. Think about how she would want you to live the rest of your life and try and smile for her. She wouldn't want you to be sad. Friends are trying to help you, but tell them dating is way too soon.
2006-12-18 18:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B patient! remember it ur gf will get hurt 2 no u r sad..live life fully 4 her sake dear..all z very best!
2006-12-18 19:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Vashini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to accept it..give yourself some time to heal the grief you feel inside.. being w/ friends, families and people you love will help to heal your pain..but you know you can only release the pain and smile but you will never forget your loved one!
2006-12-18 18:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your ready to go out with others. Don't listen to what others say, just listen to your heart.
2006-12-18 18:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋