I'M GETTING TO MY THANK YOU CARDS FROM OUR WEDDING, AND SOME PEOPLE (THAT WERE NOT THERE, FAMILY THAT SENT A CHECK) AND SINCE IVE NEVER MET THEM- I SORT OF FORGOT IF I SENT THEM ONE OR NOT... I DONT WAN TTO SEND IT TO THEM TWICE, BUT I ALSO DONT WANT TO NOT SEND THEM A CARD... WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-18 18:04:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Send another and if they say they got two, tell them someone helped you with them
2006-12-18 18:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-27 19:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by fette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get another relative to intercede. They should give the person a call and tactfully mention that you've gotten your notes confused, can't be sure that you've sent your thank you cards to a couple of the people on the list, and are concerned about offending them.
Send a duplicate with an explanation if you have to, but be sure you send something! It's incredibly rude not to acknowledge a gift, and the one who's probably going to wind up hearing about it isn't you, but your mother and/or whoever the person they're closely related to is.
2006-12-18 18:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Send a second note that says, "I just want to thank you again for the generous gift. It means so much to us that we were in your thoughts. We have decided to put your gift towards [whatever you are going to spend money on]/place your lovely gift on the mantle/whatever."
This way, if you already sent a thank you, it will sound like you wanted to thank them again since you have decided what to do with the gift. If you did not thank them, then your bases are all now covered because you will have thanked them without them ever knowing there was an issue.
Best wishes!
2006-12-18 18:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call and fess up. Just ask, "This is so embarassing, but I got my thank you cards all messed up. Did you get one from me yet?" If they say yes, just say, "Oh, phew. And thank you again." And if they say no then say, "I'm so glad I called. Because your gift was so thoughtful I'd regret it forever if I didn't thank you." Then mail one the next day. Please don't go with the advice saying just move on or forget it. If I sent a wedding gift and never got a thank you I'd be PISSED! You've been busy and happy...you made a mistake. People will understand.
2006-12-19 01:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask mom or mother-in-law or other family member who knows them to innocently ask, "I was wondering, did Michelle send her thank you cards out yet?" This should be done during a normal conversation and not done during a call made to solely determine if they got a thank you. If they answer "Yes, it was a thoughtful card." then you know you sent them one. Good luck!
2006-12-18 18:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by MisterRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, just make sure if they call you in the future you talk nice to them. So that way if they did not get a card, they can say "Oh she is such a nice girl".. and they wont feel bitter because they sent you money but didnt get anything back...
2006-12-18 18:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have sent all the thank you notes right away.
I don't know what you can do, now. How did things get so disorganized? Didn't you keep a list of the gifts you received and the dates you sent your thank yous?
You deposited the checks and spent the money before you sent the thank you note? Wow, that was quite rude, don't you think?
2006-12-18 20:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its my thought that it is better to thank a person twice than not even once.
In your situation, I would send them an thank you note anyways... that way, you can be doubly sure you thanked them.
Also, do make a list next time so that it helps you keep things in order.
2006-12-18 19:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask around and findout who might know them better, then ask them to ask if they received your Thank you, you could also try to give them a call and in coversation ask if the Thank you arrived yet, tell them how much you missed having them there for your special day, they will remember the call and if the T.Y never gets there it is not a big problem.
2006-12-18 18:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't remember, send another card that says. I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you being at my wedding.
2006-12-18 18:06:46 · answer #11 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋