Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

Scenario:
Married for 22 years and you have a child from a previous marriage who has never been accepted by the new family (truly neither one of you has) and yet every year you get a 'family' calendar where YOUR child's special day has never been entered? Nor have they been acknowledged on holidays.... and people acted rudely whenever the child (now in their 30's) was present.

Do you respond to the party sending the calendar???
What would you say????

2006-12-18 17:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by TruthsKeeper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 17:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by vishnu g 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do some guys say one thing but do another? For instance, a guy I've been talking to says he really likes me and wants a relationship. Then he says he'll call or email the next day or whatever and then nada. No explanation as to why he didn't call or anything. I don't bring up the fact that he doesn't follow up on what he says because I don't want to nag & bit*h about it since we're not officially together and in that getting to know you stage. I also don't call or email him if he doesn't to see why he flaked. Is this a guy's way of seeing how far they can push someone that they claim to like or what? If this is a game, am I doing the right thing by acting like it doesn't bother me or should I call him on his bullsh*t? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!

2006-12-18 17:14:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They ignore you like you aren't even talking to them..do you get mad?What do you do?

2006-12-18 17:14:45 · 14 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

I mean, 5'9" and above just starts to look like a freak of nature.
I like short women, and I'm tall myself.

2006-12-18 17:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i like this guy, and i know his sister pretty well because she played on the same sports team as me but shes at college now. but she came down to visit, so do you think i should ask her about him and see if she can do anything. like hook us up. im pretty sure she will because she asked me about him last year but i said no because i had no idea who he was. so what do you think?

2006-12-18 17:14:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 17:13:04 · 7 answers · asked by babytwinkie813 1 in Friends

Have you ever dated or had a relationship with a woman who pursued you as opposed to you pursuing her?

I recently have read a few books on relationships and they stated women should not pursue a man if she wants him to be really interested in her.

And I don't mean pursue like stalk or act needy. Just complimenting and showing interest.

It seems like everytime I have shown interest in a guy, he rarely shows interest back. But, if he pursues me first there seems to be more.

2006-12-18 17:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you pay for your own wedding, or did your parents pay for it? (or parents: did you pay for your children's weddings? or not? )

2006-12-18 17:11:55 · 36 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Weddings

I'm 20 and he's 28 and I don't know what to get. He dresses real nice... Sean John, Dolce & Gabbana, Timbs etc... but its hard to pick clothes out for other people. He's really into music as a hobby I guess and him and his friends are always making beats and using their makeshift recording studio. He has good taste in EVERYTHING!!!! I want him to actuallly like what I get him... but I know he'll pretend to either way. He bought me a 250 winter coat already from DEMO... so I guess I need to keep that standard. ughhh help

2006-12-18 17:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in a small town and i have no friends (they all went to college out of state) and so i am left here all alone with no idea on how to meet people (never really learned) could you help me out? i am not oldenough to drink and i have no idea how to approch people when i head to the local community college for my classes.

i am very shy and not very good looking...all in all i need serious help.

2006-12-18 17:10:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have a nice hotel package for New Year's Eve. Any romantic ideas for things to wear or things to do?

2006-12-18 17:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by AirborneKappaSigma 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok dhe found out my password to email address and she went through everything then gets mad at me for some dirty emails from exs well it was over 500 but thats not the point she has the balls to be mad at me and says she cant trust me. Do i have a right to be mad?

2006-12-18 17:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents hated this guy I was seeing who is divoiced and because I was so scared I said that I was not seeing him some ten yrs ago. Now I would like to tell my parents that I really want to marry him but at the same time not loose or break my family. how do I break this news to them.

2006-12-18 17:08:18 · 3 answers · asked by Tracey 1 in Family

This guy has told me he likes me and all and have been trying to get me to go out with him in the past few months, but I kept putting him off. Last weekend he told me he starts going out with another girl. I didn't say anything then.

After thinking about it, I feel that I like him and really, I have been very upset with the idea of him going out with other girls. He doesn't know that yet. Should I tell him how I feel?

2006-12-18 17:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im petite, and though many people say im cute, i am not really flattered coz i think cute is very immature. im 25 and looking cute doesnt really feel good when youre 25.

2006-12-18 17:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel I don't need a boyfriend, not really. All I need to have fun are my girls to hang out, but I think my girlfriends will leave me in any moment for a guy. I am confused, if my friends get a boyfriend I will be left alone, but I do not want a boyfriend. Confused =S! HeLp! Quick =P! XOXO

2006-12-18 17:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by Issa A 1 in Singles & Dating

For those who think this isnt worth answering, no need to post an angry answer please.. just skip my question..

My exboyfriend and I are broken up for almost two years already. In the past two years he had been trying to come back to me but it just feels like he's ready and then he's not again until i got sick and nearly died that he became so persistent and so ready. Yet, the way i look at it he's still the same, he hasnt changed. He still doesn't care much, and now that he's vacationing in a different country, he hasn't even contacted me, and whenever i tell him to stop playing games with me, he would beg me to give him a chance and not totally close the door and so i would because i still love him and then again.. there he goes again.. he won't do anything to work it.. just letting time pass by.. it's a dilemma cause I love the guy but the way he's going on.. it seems that i have no place in his life..

2006-12-18 17:05:06 · 13 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For those who think this isnt worth answering, no need to post an angry answer please.. just skip my question..

My exboyfriend and I are broken up for almost two years already. In the past two years he had been trying to come back to me but it just feels like he's ready and then he's not again until i got sick and nearly died that he became so persistent and so ready. Yet, the way i look at it he's still the same, he hasnt changed. He still doesn't care much, and now that he's vacationing in a different country, he hasn't even contacted me, and whenever i tell him to stop playing games with me, he would beg me to give him a chance and not totally close the door and so i would because i still love him and then again.. there he goes again.. he won't do anything to work it.. just letting time pass by.. it's a dilemma cause I love the guy but the way he's going on.. it seems that i have no place in his life..

2006-12-18 17:04:14 · 11 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

guys would you let her?

2006-12-18 17:03:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For those who think this isnt worth answering, no need to post an angry answer please.. just skip my question..

My exboyfriend and I are broken up for almost two years already. In the past two years he had been trying to come back to me but it just feels like he's ready and then he's not again until i got sick and nearly died that he became so persistent and so ready. Yet, the way i look at it he's still the same, he hasnt changed. He still doesn't care much, and now that he's vacationing in a different country, he hasn't even contacted me, and whenever i tell him to stop playing games with me, he would beg me to give him a chance and not totally close the door and so i would because i still love him and then again.. there he goes again.. he won't do anything to work it.. just letting time pass by.. it's a dilemma cause I love the guy but the way he's going on.. it seems that i have no place in his life..

2006-12-18 17:03:38 · 13 answers · asked by evismea 1 in Singles & Dating

why do men do this? dont they know it is disrespectful. yes true enough they have to see with their eyes but to down right make it obvious that they see another woman appealing while their woman is standing there is dog gone rude.

2006-12-18 17:03:31 · 21 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

M b oyfriend is leaving for two years and i know that if he leaves i will probably end up cheating on him. I just feel bad cuz i gave all i had 2 him but i just don't think i can do it. I mean how will i make it without him?!

2006-12-18 17:01:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My g/f and I have been going out since August but I just recently came to realize its not going to work out. I don't want to break up with her this close to Christmas but will probably do it soon after. I know I should give her a Christmas gift but my heart just isn't in it; yet I don't want to disappoint her somehow.

2006-12-18 17:01:10 · 24 answers · asked by Its_me 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend saids its a stupid idea. but i love bannanas i have bannas every where during the crismas season whats wrong with that ?

2006-12-18 17:00:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy for barely a month but now he's 9 hours away. He wants to have a long distance relationship, but I'm worried that our relationship is not strong enough yet. It sucks because we're both crazy about eachother and he's an amazing guy. He would only be able to visit me a couple times a year. Do you think it could work?

2006-12-18 16:59:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 16:59:02 · 8 answers · asked by allisongirlyblonde 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 16:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by caramelbunny 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy in my school and hes new. he hasn't dated anyone yet but i like him. should i tell him that i like him? or what? hes really shy and i talked to him for my other friend a few weeks ago and he was like"i dont like anyone right now" ????????????

2006-12-18 16:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Callie P 3 in Singles & Dating

(Somewhere casual but nice...as its going to be awkward)

2006-12-18 16:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Singles & Dating