Ok dhe found out my password to email address and she went through everything then gets mad at me for some dirty emails from exs well it was over 500 but thats not the point she has the balls to be mad at me and says she cant trust me. Do i have a right to be mad?
2006-12-18 17:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She says she can't trust you ...... it's her that's been hacking into your personal e-mails so I would say it's you that can't trust her.
2006-12-18 17:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and have had this happen to me during both my serious relationships. I hate to say it, because I loved them both, but it all has me wondering why I bother with women.
This is an unwarranted invasion of privacy. They make you feel like you are under attack and they just humiliate you, when its THEY who have done something terrible to YOU. And do you think they'd forgive you if you did the same thing to them? No way!
You do have a right to be mad and maybe its best to end the relationship now. Once trust has gone out the window, its just a matter of time before one or the other packs it in. Sorry and good luck
2006-12-18 18:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either one of u guys should be be at all. It's just something that happened spare of the moment. She got in one her snooping moods from that female intuition, and u were just being a man, so what's there to be mad at. She shouldn't get mad cause they were just pics, unless they were from "Chickie(s) on the side" or something, and u shouldn't be mad at her, cause u knew it was going to catch up with you one day if u kept them around. So make up, get rid of those pics, and maybe even tell her the next time u want to look at things like that before u have to go back to sneaking around doing it. Honesty is the best policy, and it'll be more enjoyable when she knows about it.
2006-12-18 17:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, be mad! I be mad too. That is like going through your privacy. You are not cheating or doing something stupid. My wife does that to me all the time and I cant stand it.
Why dont you check her e-mail? If she is talking about trust, check her stuff out too but do it in front of her and at the time that you do not give her time to delete anything. You have to play it smart.
Then lets see who really is trusting who.
2006-12-18 17:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!!! First of all, she should NOT have done that and secondly, she has NO right to get mad about whatever you did with your ex girlfriends. She seems like the overly jealous type. All I can say is run far far away as fast as you can. If this is any indication of how she will always act then you do not want to get involved with someone like that.
2006-12-18 17:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not really....yeah it was bad that she would do that, so i can definately understand why you would be mad, BUT the stuff she found that really shouldn't have been there definately outweighs her snooping around.
i could say you should both be mad at eachother, but once you realize that everything is your fault no matter what, you will be better of with women.
2006-12-18 17:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by program dude 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
UHH yeah she has the right to be mad! Are the e-mails new or are they from before you started a relationship with her? You shouldn't have anything to hide! Therefore, it shouldn't matter if she went through your e-mail or not! All humans are curious, and will snoop around no matter what! It is human nature!
2006-12-18 17:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes..you have every single right to be really really mad. Whatever you have in your mailbox is another story, but the fact that she invades your privacy is something unexceptable.
So yes....be mad is normal in this case. You'd be a weirdo for not getting mad though lol.
2006-12-18 17:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have the right to be mad since it shows she has no trust in you and does not respect your privacy. It probably makes her feel insecure knowing you have so many emails from exs, she might think you are still holding on to them.
2006-12-18 17:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well she had a reason to be snooping around didnt she lol 500 dirty emails. but you both should be mad, youll probably break up
and she never trusted you in the first place, probably because she had reason to though
2006-12-18 17:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
not really, if you all love eachother, it probally killed her, think about it, if u had HER password you know you'd snoop hun..lol wouldnt you get mad if her ex had 500 dirty emails? im sure you would if you care enough about her. apologize to her!
2006-12-18 17:11:08 · answer #11 · answered by crack2dacrackwhore 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋