M b oyfriend is leaving for two years and i know that if he leaves i will probably end up cheating on him. I just feel bad cuz i gave all i had 2 him but i just don't think i can do it. I mean how will i make it without him?!
2006-12-18 17:01:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very doubtful.
2006-12-18 17:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Magic 8-Ball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him and give all of yourself then you will have nno problem. ONLY that you will miss him greatly. If you suspect you will cheat on him then you shouldn't tell him you'll wait and then cheat. That would be horrible. He will appreciate the honesty if you just say I think out relationship has run its course. You are going away and I don't know if i will stay true to you so I think its best of we end what we had before it is lost and we end up hating each other. This may sound funny and dumb or whatever but trust me, as a guy, he will be glad that you said something instead of letting everything just die and you two hating each other.
2006-12-18 17:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a rough topic. I was once in a long distance relationship. At first all was good. Maybe the first 30 days. But than i work long houes at the job and weekends in which my girl thought I was avoiding her. She kept asking me what I am doing and then calling every 30 or even 15 minutes for nothing. Started to run out of things to say and after a while, I was not motivated to talk to her anymore. Things just died out.
I am not saying this can happen to you. But if you are in a long distance relationship, you can learn from what I wrote.
Long distance relationship is a tremendous sacrafice and alot of trust. If you both are willing than anything can happen. Men are men, woman are woman. Every human being are the same in my eyes.
You may agree or disagree: You are not married, you are free to do whatever. If you are married, men zip it and ladies close it.
I should take my own advice....LATER!
2006-12-18 17:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first answer is right if your love is Strong it wont matter how far or how long ! but i have a feeling your ready to move on ... look ask yourself and him why hes going number 1. and and how will this effect your ability to communicate will you still be in regular contact?number 2. what is your age and his are your both ready to commit to this it is a long time if there is no wedding plans ! and number 3. are you sure you want to give him that long that's a big chunk of your youth maybe better spent living and enjoying life ! just saying think about it first and then go with your decision !! and if you do decide to wait then good but at least you made a well thought out decision !
good luck and god bless!!!
2006-12-18 17:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be in actual contact as a lot as feasible. failing this the subsequent perfect element is voice and video, so get on the internet and use Skype to have video conversations. in case you do not have internet then instead of texting use the phone for authentic conversations. that is so significant to maintain in contact inclusive of your significant different that you try this stuff once feasible. those non-verbal cues you get from seeing and listening to the different individual all upload to the time-honored of your conversations which flow in the route of your relationship besides. yet another tip, deliver him hand written playing cards or letters each and every now and then. that is a lot more beneficial own and shall we him recognize you're putting more beneficial attempt into verbal substitute than an undemanding textual content message (that may could cost because the bottom feasible style of intimate verbal substitute). do not enable distance reason you complications, locate a fashion to recuperate from the gap and assist in making your relationship flourish. better of success in this.
2016-11-27 19:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by hukill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you start off thinking that you will cheat then no it will not last.
If the two of you want to make thing last then like any relationship you will have to work at it.
I would suggest the two of you get web cams so when you talk to each other you two can still see each other, that might help with missing each other.
Good luck
2006-12-18 17:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but you thinking about cheating on him before he leaves lets me believe you have no self control .That is one of the things necessary for any long distance relationship along with good comunication trust and honesty.Make up your mind before he moves and then be honest with him .
2006-12-18 17:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to get yourself togather sweety, If you know in your heart and soul that you love him, You wont cheat on him, it wouldnt have even cross your mind.!!!:) So talk to him, tell him yall should have a open relationship, see other people for the time being 2 years? but any ole ways.lol.. Try to be faithfull, if you cant tell him, see how things are when he returns in 2009.
2006-12-18 17:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by crack2dacrackwhore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know if it will work unless u try, evrything has an inherent risk.Is it worth it? If u both truly care about each other, u have to take that risk n' make sacrifices in order for great things to happen.
2006-12-18 17:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by sadjorney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on cheating on him I would break up with him now.
You can make it just fine without him.
My parents lived apart for 4 years because of his job with the governement and they survived it just fine.
2006-12-18 17:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by reflective_pool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Webcam. I'm assuming you both are capable to using one. Skype is a great porgram for staying in touch. I do it with my sig other 7 states away
2006-12-18 17:06:53 · answer #11 · answered by cobble109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋