How do I find out if my wife is having an affair/intercourse with someone in my absence?

Answer 1

hire a private detective

Answer 2

If your wife is sending off signals,then i would sit her down and have a talk and just ask her to show you the respect that is deserved and ask her about your concerns.However,if you have to have this fear of her involvement with anyone else,then there is no trust and without trust you have no true relationship at all.If a person is bent to do something anyway,no one could or can prevent it from happening anyhow.Just be calm and try not to read into something that might not even be there to begin with.In time everything always comes to light.So keep in mind that all lasting relationships are built with a foundation and trust,so try if anything to work towards those goals and making things wonderful between you both.I hope this has helped in some way.Best wishes to you both and i hope you have a wonderful holiday!

Answer 3

Why do you think so? Are you unable to satisfy her? If yes than its too sad, you have to build up your self or forget what ever is happening.
Waht if she has the same question for you?
Family is runn on faith and respect.
If She is doing it, she should stop. You have to have faith in her or bring some of your close one to keep watch over her.
You can take her for a DNA test on the day u have doubt that she had inter course with some one else.
Take leave and pushout for some honeymoon trip and speak to her freely and check her response.
Other wise if she wants U will never come to know when she had intercourse with other.

Answer 4

Thats great, it is true that your wife is having an affair with someone ( at least u think so, u r the right judge for ur wife buddy), now the question is what should you do? Cross the English Channel or start having an affair with somebody else, its simple as that.

Answer 5

You can just come out and ask her. If she denies it, then you can hire a private investigator. They can be found in the yellow or white pages. It is not good to be distrustful, unless you have some evidence to start with, that makes you question her cheating. Maybe you should check her cell phone, emails. But just don't get caught. Remember if she wants to be with you, you won't have to do so much to keep her. She will just love you and want to be with you. If not, let her go.

Answer 6

hide a micro-camera in ur bedroom maybe at some dark corners yet can see everything clearly in the room. or, find a chance, u tell ur wife u go work as usual, let her believe u didn't suspect her. but u'll make a turnback to ur house after few hours. or u can divert home calls to ur handphone. done it clean.

Answer 7

Is your relationship deficient in any way emotional/sexually that makes you think or suspect that she would be seeking the same outside the marriage?Talk to yourself & talk to her and take proper corrective action.To clap you always need to hands..you cant clap with a single hand..Look into,analyse and resolve the matter with the least possible damage to the relationship.Luck n cheers!!!

Answer 8

Tell her you have to leave town for a few days for work related things and actually follow her and see what she does. Oh, Take along a camera so the it makes things easier for the divorce lawyers.

Answer 9

How are u asking for that ? Have u any doubt or any other reason to think abt that matter ? otherwise by suspecting unnecessarily, U will spoil your family life. The people will give u advices to spoil your family. So first be confirm abt your doubt before taking any step.

Answer 10

hire a private detective who can indicate to you regarding her possibly having such affairs ...

hire a medical practioner who can examine her and find out whether she had an intercourse ...

Answer 11

I could tell when my ex was unfaithful by how poorly he treated me and how secretive he was! Try to keep good contact with your wife if you feel unsure for any reason by her actions if they are not as when you did trust her! Good luck.