GIRLS!!! i need your advice/counseling?

Question

i am a typical 19 year old guy. for as long as i can remember, which is like from jr. high, i'v had nothing but female friends, for every 1 guy friend i have, i'll have 32 female friends. even now, nothing's changed. but im kinda worried that it will if not already, make an impact on me. i'm not gay, but i am kinda metrosexual.

*FOR THE GUY WHO DIDN'T KNOW WHAT METROSEXUAL MEANT: it means to excel and place an importance in all personal aspects such as hygiene, good grooming, and mental and physical upkeep.

Answer 1

Not a lady, but would like to point out you're already asking questions...

Answer 2

Having female friends doesn't make you gay. I am opposite of you. For every real female friend I have i have like 10 male friends and I grew up in a household of all male cousins/siblings. I am most diffenately NOT a lesbian.

I think the thing for you is that you have a unique look into the other side of things. I am odd as a woman. My beliefs and attitudes on things are a little off, but I dont find that a problem I enjoy it. I love being different. Examples: I think porn is a good thing, dont think I need a billion shoes and have a hard time waiting for a guy to open the door for me. The plus side is that I understand the need for guys night out, know that when my man checks out another woman its nothing to be upset about and I ended up being much more even tempered.

For you the metrosexual thing has many elements. I am sure if you look at it you will be able to pin point the things that you are happy to have instead of the standard male tendencies. You really do have much more of an advantage then a disadvantage and you should reveal in that. It may not help you much while your brain is still programmed into the "highschool" idea of things, but when you start to branch out you are going to see that woman all over are WAITING FOR YOU!

You have the knowledge to pamper them and know what the standard woman would go crazy over it. Love it, use it and be proud. I am sure you're female friends have already compared their boyfriends to you and you have be rated on top.

*HUGS*

Answer 3

Well you've come up with a word I've never heard of and I really doubt that it's even in the dictionary ,,,, Metrosexual ,,,, What's that ?? It's just quite possible that you haven't met the right girl yet ,,,, Stop letting your glands worry you or do your thinking for you ,,,, continue on the way your are ,,,, Meet as broad a range of girls as you can ,,,,, So that later on you can make a better decision as to who you want a serious relationship with ,,,, I don't know where you got this word metrosexual but I'd forget about that too ,,,, don't be so ready to commit to a life style that you'll regret later ,,,, It just may haunt you in the future ,,,, You are only 19 ,,,, give it some time ,,, don't be so anxious ,,,, Just let nature take it's course ,,,,

Answer 4

I don't think there is anything wrong with you, I think you are a pretty damn lucky guy. That doesn't make you gay. However, if you do have a serious girlfriend, most likely she would wonder why you have so many other female friends and wonder if she could trust you (just a generalization although some really cool confident girls out there aren't that way). You're just probably just more comfortable with women.

Answer 5

I had a guy friend in high school who also didn't think he was gay, until he had sex with a girl and realized he was definetly gay... He had a ton of girl friends and not very many guy friends.. very very metro sexual... Maybe you are gay and have been supressing your feelings.

Answer 6

its good to have girl friends and besides, most good relationships come from being friends first right?

Answer 7

i agree with the first one.