a gal is in love with her boyfriend for 3 years and the boy impregnantes another and decides to dump his long time love jus for a 2 month relationship with his new gal.how would anyone treat this?the first gal is so much hurt that she can not go on.
2006-12-18 19:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by sandy b m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let the guy lie in the bed he made.We arent given more than we can handle.
2006-12-18 19:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it's past time for you to move on because the relationship was over the minute he touched the girl he got pregnant ,,,, Lesson learned for the future ,,,, There are plenty of other fish in the pond so go fishing and find some one that is more solid and reliable ,,,, You don't need this crap so don't worry about him and don't let him talk you into comming back to him no matter what he says or does up to and including tears ,,,, He's already done it to you once and that proves he's capable of doing it again if he ever got the chance ,,,,
2006-12-18 20:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal and rejection are painful. You live long enough and you will experience this first hand. She is not alone. Join the club of the human race. This has been going on since Adam had kids. The point is that she will go on just like millions have before her. And bozo who dumped her will be back if his latest fling fails. This is where she must be strong, and kick his sorry butt out for good. She can never trust him again. If she takes him back she is doing so to meet her own needs, and not because she loves him. Also rebounding is the same thing: selfish.
2006-12-18 19:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would look at like this. If he truly Love you he would have not strayed in the first place. He would have been honest and up front about his feelings from the start of the other relationship. I know your hurting just give it time and it will pass.
But I always live by this rule. Never ever let a man take your spirit or your pride. Keep your head up. Because there is a man that will truly love you.
2006-12-18 19:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Coder 3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do about HIM :( but there is something you can do about YOURSELF. Looks like when he was with you, he was lying to you and cheating on you (sounds like, uh, a real winner *cough*). And just think, that other woman is now stuck with him (and even more so because she has a child with him). I recently experienced something like that, and I can honestly tell you that I can tell that my ex- definitely does NOT feel like his side of the grass is greener. He always looks pissed off, unclean, unkept, unhappy, and has lost this sparkle in his eyes that he once had when we were together. I have to admit that when we were together I THOUGHT he was sweet and all that. but ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. But too bad for him- I have been doing well and he sees me doing better than he is! Sometimes I am depressed, sometimes I am alright, sometimes I am elated about other things in my life but I am still hanging in there. All you can do is move on even though it's so hard. If you need help, seek counseling- that's what I would do, and that is what I am planning to do. And if you have some good friends and good family members, make much of their support. Take care!
2006-12-18 19:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love your future ex-boyfriend, try and talk to him seriously about this current situation you`re both in.
Try and find out as soon as you can how he truly feels about you and also about this other girl he just got pregnant.
You need to know where you stand in regards to this man & his feelings towards you otherwise you will neither find the strength nor the motivation necessary to move on with your own life.
Good luck to you!
You have a long & difficult road ahead of you...
Happy Holidays!!!
2006-12-18 19:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can so go on!
Let them have each other, I know it will be hard, but really there is always someone else out there for you, and they may be better or nicer.
You will probably get depressed, get drunk, sleep around...but dont do any of this.
Your going to let some ****** control you even when he is not there???
You need to move away form where they are, like a new place or city...you can do it, I know you will be fine, dont waste time or emotions on this loser.
2006-12-18 19:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first girl should leave that guy immediately. Because either this guy is very confused about own decesion or he is a play boy. both kind of person is not capable of being dependent. So the first girl has to make herself strong and move forward forgetting everything about the past.
2006-12-18 19:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by nazia f 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 years is a long time and it will take some time to get over him. Just so you know, it's his loss and not yours. In away you should be glad that you're not going to be wasting anymore time on such a loser that has not respect what-so-ever for you. Don't give up. All men are not such a--holes. You were just unlucky this time and all good things come to those who wait.
2006-12-18 19:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think this guy is a dreadful person and he would have left her sooner or later.Ask the lady not to lament over it and move on in life.
2006-12-18 19:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋