and want to just mess around with her. But the problem is, I have a girlfriend that I love. Should I tell the stripper that I have a girlfriend and I just want to mess around with her? Or should I tell my girlfriend that I met this stripper and bring her into our relationship for some spicy times?
2006-12-18 18:51:45 · 17 answers · asked by stryc9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make friends with the stripper, keep the gf
2006-12-19 00:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question depends on, how much you love your girlfriend? From the looks of it...I think your straying there for some spice. Look if you want that extra spice chances are your not into your girl as much. I mean come on...your a guy and you want sex. Maybe you should let your GF go before you do something stupid an hurt her feelings. It doesn't matter if its the stripper or another girl that might come in your life. You don't sound like your ready to commit in a relationship...so why waste her time. Now, if you do "LOVE" her or have strong feelings for your girl...then let that stripper of ANY other girls that come in to your life go, and just tell them NO. Temptation will always be there you have to do the right thing. About inviting the stripper for some action...I don't think so! Its not going to work for you, don't slap yourself on the face and be smart.
2006-12-18 19:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your g/f you shouldnt be asking this question anymore. But since you asked, i think your problem is that youre just being bored with her. If she means alot to you, then get away from the stripper and communicate well with your girl about spicying up your relationship and have more fun. I am not looking at the stripper as less human, but its about valuing what you already have and being fair to someone who's been loving you even way before the stripper came to your life. What you had with the stripper was just one weekend, and you and your g/f can have more fun and spicy weekends if you'll only learn to handle it like a real man. :)
2006-12-18 19:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking towards a stripper, maybe you should leave your current relationship with your girlfriend. It's not fair to her or you to invest into a relationship that is full of cheating. For "spicy times" just buy two strippers. They won't complain and you won't have to worry about the awkward time after.
2006-12-18 18:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all those questions deserve slaps [except for telling the stripper u have a gf]....why have a girlfriend if ur not gonna be faithful.....
AND not to be like mean or anything but...u never know..where strippers have ''been'' u can be really suprised one day at a doctors office
do u know how many guys want to mess around with strippers..and how many actually mess around with them
u never know where people have ''been''
2006-12-18 18:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many other people have just messed around wit this stripper. If you love your gf, forget the stripper. Do not say anything to your gf about her.
2006-12-18 19:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by cm f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
strippers are not as bad as they look like its just their job and nothing else it doesn't necessarily mean that they are always horny and looking for sex so treat them fair
you have no right to hurt her feelings if ever because you have no idea of what she is like when not in bed
and saying to a girl that you just want to mess up with her is really bad
actually you are not being fair to your girlfriend when you mess with a stripper
so here's what you have to do pay the stripper say sorry to your girlfriend and of course the stripper
2006-12-18 19:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by arn_14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are seeking something outside of your realtionship you are not very devoted to your relationship. Is the stripper worth risking everything you and your girfriend have together? Sex may not be worth it, if it is break up with the g/f, because you are not ready for a devoted relationship yet.
2006-12-18 19:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by M P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first answer is correct.
Stay away from the stripper and be faithful to your gf.
2006-12-18 18:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you love your girl, how would you feel if she announced:
"hey honey I met a hot sexy male stripper with a big peniz and want to*@#$^% him, of course it's not personal and you really do satisfy me, but I just thought it would be fun. BTW if you're ok with it you can join in."
You don't sound like the type of guy who would be pleased by such a thing. :)
2006-12-18 19:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by LadyB!™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋