I've met this girl on the internet. She gave me her phone number. We talked a bit, decided to meet each other. Then, she invited me to her birthday party, theater. And then, I've invited her at my family party for christmas. She said yes. But sometimes, I've the feeling she's not that much interested. I know she's a bit busy... but each time I've talked to her, it was really ok. When I see her in person, she has a way of looking at me that gives me hope... she's really nice and intersting. Well, what do you think about this ?
I've sent her an email (lame of me) about how I feel and stuff, but she didn't answer... yet. She told me she was confused and didn't know what to answer. What I know for sure, is that she accepted my invitation, so now, I'm a bit confused about everything.
Yesterday, she didn't call me back, she was probably busy... she's not a liar...
2006-12-18 19:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by eth1_hifi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could be just getting over a bad relationship and she is scared to get into another one that may turn out bad. If she is really busy she could also be feeling guilty about not having the time she wants to spend with you. If she feels she is neglecting you it could be a big problem for her. If that is the case she needs your patience. She is obviously interested in you because you do believe that she is telling you the truth and has invited you to her birthday and accepted an invitation to your family.
2006-12-18 19:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Janet J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None of the details that you gave is any indication to whether she is interested or not. Most people go net chatting for fun, to get to know more people, especially in this current generation where most people are open in this area of discussion. I am not saying that she is not interested, but accepting an invitation to go out, irregardless the location is no indication at all. Give her time to respond, let her think, don't try to push for an answer, no one likes a demanding person for a companion. Understand her more, TRY to understand her more, talk more, communicate more, then maybe you can gain her trust and the next step can be taken from there. A few outings does not account for anything, however, it is in the quality time that you spend together and not quantity time that matters. Good luck
2006-12-19 03:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by glastnot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay u r my best friend! I know what u mean. I really like this guy. He makes me so confused! I really like him and when I see him we never talk but the look he gibes me just fills me up and I am happy the rest of the day! Gorgeos eyes...................... sorry bout that, this bout u! Keep doing what u r doing. U really liker right? Don't give up! Power to love! (raises fist an wipes away a tear)
2006-12-19 03:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you've answered your own question...she likes you and she's been busy! obviously if she's accepted your invitation to a family christmas party she's pretty interested. just take it as it comes.
hope it all goes well :)
2006-12-19 03:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not in the romantic mood type, and you really are expecting something more from her, you know you both have possibilities, you want to believe that both of you have potential, but you know the spark is not there, its just more of a formal setting you want something more and youre not getting the reaction and mood you can get inspired with- she is not that in to you, more of i have no choice, so i should just give in more like that type, and not the in love woman type, if i were the man i'd get sick of this game and just find someone whom i can have a real connection with, not someone i need to beg attention from
2006-12-19 03:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dun worry. give each other time to think over whether to start this relationship. let nature takes its place. agreeing to go ur family party is a good sign. dun rush things, or u might scare her away.
2006-12-19 03:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by fuxiang c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude..give her some time and space to think about it..the key to this kinda problem is that you really shouldn't rush things..take it step by step..the biggest mistake i ever made was being too impulsive and to rush things, in the end, there was nothing left for me..so yup, take it easy and if she's interested in you which i think she might be..then that calls for celebration! =))
2006-12-19 03:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man ur jumping first strenghthen ur relationship and find out about her more by knowing her u can know shes humourus serious person or watever so be patient and wait
2006-12-19 03:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by anuraag t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 03:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about it in person, if she is not a liar and says she likes you then your good, if she says she is not shure change her mind for her, and if she says that she is not interested then**** her.
2006-12-19 03:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by free2rok101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋