Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

OK so my ex- boyfriend is 25 and I'm 21. We dated for a month then HE ended it saying that he's "busy". Our relationship was very innocent, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. Neways, we both go to the same university, I'm an undergrad while he's a grad student. I was crossing the street and he called my name and we talked for a bit. At the end of the conversation he asked me "to give him a shoutout if I ever wanted to "hang out". I said said bye & walked away. That was a month ago & he never brought it up even on msn, thus I thought it was just fake. Today I got the biggest surprise, I logged on msn and he said hi right away. He asked me my plans for the winter break & I did, then he told me that he's gonna have a long break & travel. Then he said "we should meet up". I said sure & he asked me when was good for ME, I did, & now we're meeting up next week.He said he'll call me the night before. WHY does he wanna see me now?

2006-12-16 11:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my friend I was in love with her a year ago after a guy she dated for 2 yrs. broke her heart. She said needed time to get over him, so I kept my feelings buried as best as I could. Love is patient I know because I've had feelings for her for a long time, even before their breakup. Im not sure I can kept pretenting that she is only a friend to me. We have been spending more time together and she tells me I make her feel safe and that there is an attraction. I think she has feelings for me but she still seems afriad to take the step. She told me I've been great on not pressuring her and giving her time but its breaking my heart. I told her recently I was still in love with her. I have never had these feelings for anyone in my life

2006-12-16 11:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by the_wayward1 4 in Singles & Dating

To guys - what makes you want a woman? What kind of flirting moves make you like her without causing her to seem desperate or slutty? What was the best way a girl flirted with you?

2006-12-16 11:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by choccotaco911 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by SMack 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-16 11:30:31 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your daughter is fifteen about to turn sixteen next month. Makes A's and B's in school. And her and her boyfriend are going out for almost 2 years. If she invited her boyfriend over to her house and they were outside,without u knowing. When you found out,would you ground(punish) her or would you tell her she cant talk to her boyfriend anymore.

Do you think she'll listen?

Explain.

2006-12-16 11:30:28 · 15 answers · asked by lpkegirl 3 in Family

i like this guy named matt and i have him in 3 periods in high school
but everytime i see hiom he is always talking to this girl name tammy
i haate her
but bthe first time i saw him was in a washgntion trip and i think he was looking at me sometimes but i am not sure i but i think he is cute beacuse we have alot of things in comman so any advice for a poor little girl like me

2006-12-16 11:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by isabella p 1 in Singles & Dating

last night i masturbated using my left hand for a change. does that mean my left hand has been unfaithful to my right hand? both hands have spent all day b*tch slapping each other and i`m the one stuck in the middle. please help, it`s getting on my nerves!

2006-12-16 11:28:52 · 17 answers · asked by graham f 3 in Singles & Dating

This happens to me occasionally when I am alone in a public place and some random girl is alone there too. (I mean it is literally a under 1 second) BTW, I'm in my mid 20's and so are the girls.

Is that your way of checking out guys, without making it seem like you're interested in him?

2006-12-16 11:28:35 · 4 answers · asked by zotzotzot 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who called me and said she is having problems getting close to her new stepdaughter and that her new husband isn't including her in the things he does with his daughter. I told her to sit him down and explain to him how she feels about this and that she wants to be included while at the same time trying to spend as much time with the girl doing things she likes( she is 2).
Does anyone have anymore ideas?

2006-12-16 11:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by onehtmoma35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-16 11:26:53 · 21 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so theres this guy I really like at my school, but he's really hard to read and I get really confused. Like he'll wait on me after class, sit in the cafeteria (which is where I am, this change has started to happen in the last week) instead of going off campus, smile at me a lot, stare at me, want to be near me, etc.

But then he also asks other girls for pens/pencils when I'm pretty close to him, gives them a lot of attention (beyond friendly, more flirty) and stuff. How do I know he doesn't do this to lots of other girls on a daily basis?

It's just a huge ball of mixed signals. I've tried to mask my feelings for him completely because of this, he's in two of my classes and if it ends up he doesn't like me it would be awkward for the rest of the year.

2006-12-16 11:26:39 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

So me and my girlfriend of two years are on a "Break". when ever I text her or call her its always short and to the point as if she never wants to talk to me. should I just not talk to her at all and wait for her to come to me? and talk to me? or just say hi every now and then? i dont know what to do... I feel like she is shutting me out.

2006-12-16 11:25:42 · 1 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

everyone at my school calls me rich and spoild snob. yes, i am kinda rich, but i am not a spoild snob! why do they think this? so what, i have a very large house. so what, i have a credit card. not like i asked for all of this. i just want to know why a lot of people call richer people spoild and snobs. im so tired of it. please help me!

2006-12-16 11:25:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-16 11:25:32 · 9 answers · asked by duap h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by dchella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy about a year ago now, and on the outside I have 'moved on' and all the rest of it... I have a new man who is lovely, am doing well in college, have future plans and am often happy...

Except I'm still totally in love with this guy. So much more than anyone since. And I don't know what to do, because everyone I fancy now has some similarities to him. I feel like I only fancy people if they're like him... And they're NEVER going to be him

But how to I take this properly to heart??

2006-12-16 11:24:54 · 11 answers · asked by serf m 2 in Singles & Dating

well I been married for a year and one month and my husband and I are having problems but we are still very much in love it's just sometimes we are at eachother's necks and it tends to make me want to look the other way. Like I had an old friend call me out of the blue and I started talking to him and it felt really good at the same time I felt guilty because my husband doesn't approve of me talking with a man from my past or any man for that matter I just wanted to take a breather and talking to someone different felt good. I dont know if I should tell my husband about this I'm afraid of what may happen but it's not like I did anything wrong we just had a phone conversation but I'm not sure if that is considered cheating well I'd be mad about it if my husband was talking to a girl but were both adults and I dont see the problem. I think it's a problem that I looked for another man for comfortness...What do you think?

2006-12-16 11:24:26 · 5 answers · asked by nalana2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Form some one who dont want a boy friend because i feel very good about ny self i feel moor than that i am more passionate loving careing understadning god fearing respectful women in god.

2006-12-16 11:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by pooba_53 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by duap h 1 in Singles & Dating

i dun got that much money either... and idk i kinda want a unique gift.. homemade ideas would be good :)

2006-12-16 11:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by ~mle~ 2 in Singles & Dating

This honestly happened to me last year. My mother hadn't spoken to me in more than two years. I received an envelope in the mail, no return address, and her obituary inside. How would you come to terms with this?

2006-12-16 11:20:13 · 18 answers · asked by gentle understanding 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i dont like her to be around guys that i dont know well enough and her ex's alone. i am more of less just affraid to lose her we been togather for year and a month. i think i should trust her by now so am i worried or do i still not trust her?

2006-12-16 11:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by BAM 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by Morvareed B 2 in Friends

2006-12-16 11:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-16 11:16:23 · 5 answers · asked by doneaves@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

When I was driving back home at 23:45 one night, I saw my neighbour walking alone on the street near our houses. He was going home too. He opened his door, waited for me to arrive and talked to me. "How are you?"he asked. "Where are the children?" I asked him. I supposed that he would say they had all gone to bed. "They've gone to my girlfriend's mother's. I'm all alone again." he said. I didn't understand at the beginning, as I used to think that the lady with him was his wife. He continued," *****(the lady's name), my girlfriend, has gone to her mother's home with the children. I'm all alone again." Then he asked me about my husband. He knew my husband's working abroad at the moment. I told him that I'd join my husband as soon as my daughter enter university. He looked surprised and drew one step back. Then he asked,"Do you find it hard or easy without your husband?" "Hard of course." I answered. "If you need any help, just knock my door..." he said.

2006-12-16 11:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by lily on pool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy, but he's like, shorter than me. how do i ask him out? I never asked someone out before!

2006-12-16 11:16:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have fallen in love w/ this guy 3x already, and now again. I am playing a game that I know I can't win. What kind of fool am I?

2006-12-16 11:15:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

week, but just cant seem to make ends meet. It seems when you try to lead a good life it just seems to be so hard, Ive lived the other type of life and I always had money life didnt seem that hard financialy.

2006-12-16 11:12:16 · 17 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships