Well i dont like her to be around guys that i dont know well enough and her ex's alone. i am more of less just affraid to lose her we been togather for year and a month. i think i should trust her by now so am i worried or do i still not trust her?
2006-12-16 11:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by BAM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust her it will never work out , trust is everything in a relationship. Anyway, if she really likes you she wouldn't do anything wih these guys and if she would why would you want to be with her. Just stop worrying and let it run its course, even if that course isn't exactly what you want!
2006-12-16 11:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by xalia331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust is a must in a relationship, we all know that! So dont be inscure ,and trust her! You have been together for a year and a month thats a long time, to long to spoil something good!
Just to add I am 18 now, my boyfriend and I have been together since I was 16, there are still some wholesome girls with integrity, not all of us are sluts.
2006-12-16 11:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥JENN♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be some trust issues, but I don't think it's very respectful for her to put herself in the situation where she is alone with her exes or other single guys. I would never do that, nor would my husband. I'm not saying that one can never have a friendship with the opposite sex, but there have to be some boundaries--especially when it comes to exes!
2006-12-16 11:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by taterhatergirl_21rh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're insecure and have some trust issues but it maybe within good reason, she is in a relationship with you and there is no reason why she should be hanging out with her ex's alone or other guys you ha vent been introduced to, talk to her about your concerns and just take things from there, there is no reason why you shouldn't know who she is hanging out with when you are not around...
2006-12-16 12:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u secure with who u R? It doesn't sound like she has the issue unless u have not told everything...sounds like you may have some trust issues yourself! Look within yourself and try to figure out why you feel as you do! You will run that woman away if you continue with that behavior!
2006-12-16 11:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a real catch-22 situation: you want to trust her because you care about her but because you care so much about her, you feel vulnerable and then can't trust her. It's totally normal. It helps to remind yourself that she chose YOU to be her guy, not these other guys, even if they're her ex's. YOU'RE the one for her.
2006-12-16 11:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cool being jealous. If she cheats on you, then chances are you'll find out anyway, and you can dump her. If you can't trust her to be around guys, then it's time to dump her anyway. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-16 11:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just tell her how you feel?? You have to learn to trust her or you really will lose her.
2006-12-16 11:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her, and she's given you no reason not to, don't freak out. If you're not showing her that you trust her, it's going to push her away.
2006-12-16 11:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u dont own the gal, so u should have some kind of mutual or honest open relationship.
Stop worrying and be happy---and be friends with her friends.
2006-12-16 11:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋