2006-12-16 11:25:01 · 26 answers · asked by dchella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't cheat on your wife. Leave her if you want to see someone else. Or here's a thought... do the right thing and be faithful to your wife and family. Consider how your cheating would affect not only your wife, but your children as well. I would hope you wouldn't want to hurt them that way.
2006-12-16 11:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on her. Talk to her instead and see if you can't spice up the relationship a little. Go to a bar and pretend to be strangers, then pick her up and take her home. Make time for a romantic weekend getaway without the kids. Buy her a wig or a costume and pretend it's someone else! Vary your routine by time of day or by place you have sex. Do something surprising - like the dishes - to get her attention.
Any or all of these things might help save your marriage before you destroy it with an affair.
2006-12-16 19:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if you get caught SHE will be giving YOU the boot. YOU will be the one who is breaking the marriage contract and cheating on your marriage not her. And there are still some states that will give EVERYTHING to the women when her husband had been caught cheating. You might want to make sure you don't live in one of those states otherwise you may find yourself homeless.
2006-12-16 19:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to cheat, then the marriage is over. Think about it long and hard. Are you saying that you no longer want your wife? If you are no longer in love with your wife and want another woman then let go of your wife, get a divorce and then go out with the woman. Be a man and do it right.
2006-12-16 19:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound ugly but you really need to sit down and think about the vows you made and as for what you should do it's to think about your wife and kids and quit being that selfish to where you feel as if you have to cheat. Maybe if there's a problem where you feel like that then you need to talk to your wife and try to get professional help to keep your family together but you really need to stop thinking about yourself because if your only gonna think about you and your needs then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Good Luck!
2006-12-16 19:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to cheat i;m assuming that you don;t love her anymore. So be a man tell her you don't lover her anymore and you want out. and still take care of you're kids! They are the most important thing. No wonder the divorce rate is so high men just get an itch to cheat and don't even care about the marriage vows anymore!!!
2006-12-16 20:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy being with your wife at
least give her the respect that she deserves and
let her know why. Cheating is not part of any
marriage vows and to cheat weather being
caught or not is not the right thing to do.
2006-12-16 20:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are very selfish ! The first word in your question is 'I'.Remember, when you cheat on your wife, you cheat on yourself and hurt your kids. It's all about I (4 of them). Rather ask ' what will my wife and children do? DON'T CHEAT ON HER !. Period. Love her and the kids.
2006-12-16 19:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Pathfinder!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are selfish and think only of yourself, one day whatever u do to your wife will come back to u, and hurt u the same way u are hurting her now. if u want to cheat get a divorce first. have the decency not to hurt your wife.
2006-12-16 20:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is they should be the one giving you the boot.
If you are serious here you have no love for them so why are you still their. Get a divorce and you can have all the affairs you want. The only one hurt there is the fool women who go out with you.
2006-12-16 19:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋