Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

I just finished a very ugly divorce wherein my husband purposely drug it out and forced me to spend all kinds of money I did not have, tried to get me fired, kicked out of my house and when I filed a restraining order he retaliated by doing the same and the judge denied both. Later on he filed another one against me and she granted it and it was full of lies and things i did not do. He took me all the way through mediation agreeing to settle and at the very end stood up and demanded a trial and started calling me names and followed me to my car the whole way he got right in my face and stared taunting me and saying how much money money i am going to have to spend, etc. when he has not spent a dime. I was so mad I started yelling at him and pushed him out of my way because he was blocking my path. He turned around ran back to the court filed a police report and restraining order and got a few homeless people (one with an address) to act as his witnesses. I was arraigned for battery

2006-12-16 11:11:56 · 3 answers · asked by blondiegirlxxxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i decided i need a vacation, i am a 22 femaile andi want to go to spain, but i have no one to go with, so should i do alone?
do u think it will be fun???

2006-12-16 11:11:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i just got outta a bad relationship (cheating boyfriend with my x-best friend) and ive been feeling really lonely. its been 9 monthes already and i havent thot about any guy. i kno ive got my girl friends but then when i went to the mall and saw them shopping with him and his friends, well i didnt feel great. my sister and i hang out but its not really the same. what should i do to feel a little more loved and a little less lonely?

2006-12-16 11:10:45 · 1 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I like this guy,the thing is he's a really good friend how do I tell me or have someone tell him without telling him?lol..PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-16 11:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by carly 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:09:54 · 5 answers · asked by Kacey W 1 in Singles & Dating

What's so great about them?

2006-12-16 11:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 but I HAVE found my lifetime soulmate, we move in together this week, I can just tell her anything at all that is on my mind.....and also is it normal for an 18 year old to want to settle down, considering I have found my soulmate/life partner I just in some way dont feel normal because of this, I know everything will work great because we just love eachother so dam much but I am just wondering is it normal for an 18 year old to
A) have found his soulmate/life partner
B) wanting to settle down with that someone special

I'm just asking what people think thats all.
Mitch

2006-12-16 11:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a Taurus, and any guy that I've liked so far has been a leo or a virgo. please help me!

2006-12-16 11:09:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay well their is this guy right...and this other girl likes him but whenever i talk to him he never talks about her he always wants to talk like just us. Example, he always asks me to hang out and stuff and he asked me to come over and we could jam cuz we both love music and stuff like that. And he remebers litttle details about me. But i dont wanna hurt this other girl cuz im close with her..but im kinda interested in this guy too. What do i do?...and do you think he likes me? and if he does like me...should we hook up?

2006-12-16 11:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by sweety_pie 2 in Singles & Dating

IS HE A SPAM OR WHAT?? HOW CAN WE GET HIM KICKED OFF?? IVE REPORTED HIM BUT HES STLL HERE!

2006-12-16 11:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:06:56 · 2 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pick one:

1) light skin, medium skin, dark skin
2) hair color
3) hair texture (straight, curly, wavy)
4) full lips/thin lips
5) body type (thin, tall, short, curvy, plump...)
6) eye color
7) eye shape (round, almond...)

Pick 3 of the best personality traits
Pick 3 of the worst personality traits

Thanks!

2006-12-16 11:06:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, theres this boy Evan, from my school. I started liking him recently, and i gave him a note telling him that i like him, because i was to shy to do it in person. Well, he sent me a email back saying, that we should hang out more before he makes his decision. And lately, im to nervous to be around him, like im scared im gunna screw something up. And everyone says he also likes me, but i dont really see it. Were quite good friends, and have been for the last nine years. but its hard to read him, because hes so shy and won't really show his feelings. i dont know what to do anymore with him. help!?

2006-12-16 11:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've asked him what he wants and he says "i don't know"or "i don't care". i have no clue what to get him!!!!!! Help me!!!

2006-12-16 11:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:03:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It like one of the first things I look at....Trippy.....

2006-12-16 11:02:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've liked this girl for about a month now, im i 10th grade and i knw shes the 1... we have talked online and things got wierd when her friend said infront of me and her that i liked her...

we stopped talking untill 1 night b4 a skool bball game and party afterwards me and 2 of my buddies desided to get drunk... so we asked them to save our seats and they were gunna come after the game and have some drinks b4 the party aswell... so after im drunk and go bak to the game and i sit down and lean bak on them and flirt with them...every1 at the game new i was drunnk...

we then walked to my house and were going to have a few drinks b4 the party but they decided not to drink tonight.... and i was putting my arm around the girl of my dreams and supposubly was acting wierd... i really like the girl and she okayed it at first and after like 5 mins.. i took my arm away and her bf was getting anoyed by my actios..
the next day at a hockey game things were greattly akward.
what should ido?

2006-12-16 11:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by duap h 1 in Singles & Dating

It happen to me, but she says that she knew it was me and she was just playing?

2006-12-16 11:00:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met this girl who's friends of a friend a few months back. We became really close and after a few months I expressed interest in becoming more than friends. She kept insisting that we could only be friends but at the same time she would always flirt with me and one night I got sick of it and went to her house and we made out (and I could have slept with her but for some stupid reason I didn't). Her life got a little complicated right after that and she pulled away from me emotionally but we still talk all the time. I'm just wondering if anyone thinks I still have a shot or if I should just cut my losses and forget about it. Should I wait a little while before trying again?

2006-12-16 11:00:52 · 8 answers · asked by achoosneeze 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 11:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The second time!!! Tell me ASAP

2006-12-16 11:00:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So this guy recently asked me out. Hes pretty nice and cute and all, but I don't like him that way, i only like him as a friend. I've replied him with a "let me think about it.." So how do I reply in the nicest way possible by saying no?

2006-12-16 10:59:31 · 20 answers · asked by exxohh<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a few ladies a couples of times during the last 3-4 months. I am friendly with all of them, but not very close yet. Do you think I should give Christmans presents to them?

2006-12-16 10:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 10:58:52 · 4 answers · asked by arleen h 1 in Singles & Dating

So i dont feel like gettin bashed by girls once again so im hopeing some guys will anwser this one to. my last 3 girlfriends i broke up with after 3 weeks because i got bord/ scared becuase they all told me they would always love me no matter what...forever..is that normal. and i loovvee them until we acctaully go out and i know i have them. whats up with that? in no way shape or form am i tryin to be a jackass or mean here.

2006-12-16 10:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by jim c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 24-year old daughter - she has been dating a guy his age who has had a son with another girl when he was 19. My daughter cannot seem to get over this guy. I would like for her to finish college first. I have been supporting her all this time. She just finished her 2-yr associate degree after 6 years. She is working part-time as a waitress, but does not seem to be motivated at all. I pay her rent, car inssurance, etc., she pays for food. What should I do?

2006-12-16 10:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sams C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my boyfriend because he lied to me about talking to his exgirlfriend behind my back, they were trying to get back together. That was during the first week we went out.We were together for about a month. During that time our relationship was pretty dramatic.When I found out about what he did I asked him about it and he lied and said that it wasn't him emailing her, it was one of his friends. Ifound out he lied about that. His ex is a liar and she was the one who told me about the whole thing. She wasn't lying about it though because she printed out the emails. I didn't want to believe her because she's rude and she'll say anything to get attention. I figured out that she was trying to break me and my guy up because she was jealous. I had given her a second chance believing she was a good person, but she wasn't.He wasn't a bad person, but I really don't know what to do. He's pretty sweet. My friends think I should just forget about him because of what he did to me.

2006-12-16 10:58:00 · 6 answers · asked by sraige16 2 in Singles & Dating

so a girl and i met, based on our love for poetry, hung out, had feelings but she chose to be with someone else, bc she knows him better and i am moving 8 hours away. we agreed to be friends but then she told me something really scary that is happening to her, so i was worried and did two things: sent her the following poem and found her on campus just to hug her. to me, those things were done as a friend but the line is so blurry i messed up.
how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when the concrete invades
and an abstraction fades
depression was a season
before she gave me reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
Now, I intellectualize
feelings that have no eyes
can a gift stay alive
can kindness still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only for once see
filtered eyes set free

2006-12-16 10:56:34 · 7 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating