I broke up with my boyfriend because he lied to me about talking to his exgirlfriend behind my back, they were trying to get back together. That was during the first week we went out.We were together for about a month. During that time our relationship was pretty dramatic.When I found out about what he did I asked him about it and he lied and said that it wasn't him emailing her, it was one of his friends. Ifound out he lied about that. His ex is a liar and she was the one who told me about the whole thing. She wasn't lying about it though because she printed out the emails. I didn't want to believe her because she's rude and she'll say anything to get attention. I figured out that she was trying to break me and my guy up because she was jealous. I had given her a second chance believing she was a good person, but she wasn't.He wasn't a bad person, but I really don't know what to do. He's pretty sweet. My friends think I should just forget about him because of what he did to me.
2006-12-16 10:58:00 · 6 answers · asked by sraige16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friends are right.Move on.
Obviously he's on the fence and can't make up his mind which side he wants to be on.You don't need to waste your time waiting for him to decide.He needs to be by himself to get her out of his system completely before he gets involved with anyone else.And it's just wrong for
him to lie to you while he decides which one he truly wants to be with.
If you give him another chance now he'll think he's gotten over on you and continue to lie and probably cheat because he thinks he can.
Why put yourself thru all that drama when guys are a dime a dozen.There's another one down the street waiting to meet you.Go check it out.
Sure you can still be friends once you lay down the law and make it perfectly clear that friends is all you're ever going to be.AND STICK WITH IT.Tell him you'll wave on the street,you'll accept his phone calls whenever you're not busy you can evan hang out on occasion but you are not now or will you ever allow yourself to get involved with someone who lies to you.YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.
2006-12-16 11:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think you overreact in any way as you love him and you trusted him too. But as a couples, I think he have to tell you that he is still in contact with his ex gf to avoid any misunderstanding. If he can't do this sort of simple things, then I really have doubt on his personality coz he may want to flirt around that's all.
Whether if you want stay as friends with him depends on how you look at things from your angle.
2006-12-16 20:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for only being with someone for a month that bull **** isnt worth it you could do better and if they lie to you once they will do it again i promise epsecially about his ex move on and get another fine guy who will appreciate you and think your better than his ex
2006-12-16 19:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really enjoy spending time and talking to him hang in there and let it go. You don't have to spend to rest of your life together.
Don't let friends be your mediator take advice but make your own decisions.
2006-12-16 19:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lie is a lie and it points to a bigger flaw in his character that you havn't discovered. You are better off without him.
2006-12-16 19:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by bsquared 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your friends. What's to say he won't do this again to you.
2006-12-16 19:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋