i have been living with my boyfriend for 3 years in my rental apartment. he owns his own luxury apartment across the road, but refuses to live there! he doesn't even rent it out, it is just collecting dust while we live and pay rent in a tiny little flat.
i took him to a session of relationship counselling so we could work out our living situation with the help of a neutral mediator.
my boyfriend point blank refuses for us to move into his apartment (it apparently depresses him, and he sees it only as a "nest egg", not a place to live). despite me offering to renovate, and promising that i will never try to claim half of it (as a de facto), he still refuses for us to move into it. the counselling session- we reached a conclusion- he HAS to rent it out, and we move to a bigger rental apartment.
this is ok i guess, but i would rather the security of a place that is OWNED, not rented.
what should i do?
2006-12-16
10:22:04
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lisa s
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