Im deeply hurt because we were together for 2 years and we were in love. And the sad part is he cheated on me with a girl whos 22 with 4 kids!! She has no job and shes known for using men in the area for money! I attend colllege and work and i am a good person. Im not knocking the girl but shes using him. I dont understand i need some advice, Please??
2006-12-16 10:37:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a gerk!
I don't think both of you were in love in the first place.Hes problem just moving on.Dump him and if he begs don't take him back.he doesn't deserve a great person like you.He knew what he was doing.Just find a another guy that would never treat you that way and actually cares about you.By the way u look pretty in that picture! ^-^
2006-12-16 10:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would leave. AIDS is the number one killer of black women 25-44. I know many sisters in committed relationships that have gotten screwed behind promiscuity. You have (2) choices:You can forgive him (totally) and stay. I say totally because in order for you two to move on you have to trust him, but that may be hard because he compromised that. In other words you cant throw what he did up in his face constantly, if you are going to do that then you need to leave him alone, move on,and one day you will find someone else.
2006-12-16 18:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Earth Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about this. Please continue with your college, and don't worry about your bf. Now you know he can't be trusted. It's better to find out about this now, then to be married and find out that he's cheating years down the line. Let him go, they deserve each other. Find you someone that will treat you like you deserve. Eventually your bf may come crawling back, wanting you to take him back.....but don't do it. You've found out about this time, how many other times where they with other girls? Like I said, it's clear now that he can't be trusted. There is no use in putting yourself in a position to continue getting hurt like this. Dump him, and find someone else. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-16 18:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two words for you, DUMP HIM. I don't think the thing that you guys had was called "love" because if it was love in the first place he probably wouldn't have cheated on you at all. Especially if you guys had been dating for 2 years.
2006-12-16 18:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by kandise_parker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't control how he behaves, you can only control how you react to his behavior. I guess you have to dump your boyfriend and move on. there are a lot better guys out there that will treat you like a queen or princess. I know it's kinda hard to let go and it hurts, but time heals all..keep busy with work, friends, family, and your well being. good luck
2006-12-16 18:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's HIS loss. I'm sorry this happened to you.
But we all go through many different experiences in life.
Just take this in as one of those bad experiences.
Don't worry. God has a plan for you and will bring you the right guy in His time. Just have faith in Him. He will help you in this hard time.
2006-12-16 18:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not right for him to do that to you. If you were faithful to him and if he really cared he would have split up with you for her,even though thats wrong too. I say dump him. If he can't be the same way you are, faithful, leave him. You don't need that! Upgrade to someone better!
2006-12-16 18:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by *Gulielmo Marconi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it's his loss not yours. Second, it could be a superiority type of thing. Maybe it makes him feel more like a man to be with someone who is less off than him.
2006-12-16 18:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's not worth it. He needs to bo comitted to you. There's no way you can say or do anything to ever feel comfortable with him again. Plus, if you forgive him. He might just cheat on you again.
2006-12-16 18:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by dragon_girl441 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i can tell you a good person your beautiful and you can do better if he wanna be wit a broke *** ***** den let him.yall wuz in love so i can say dont trip but i can say "MOVE ON" dont be stuck on dat ***** you can find somebody better i promise you dat.
good luck holla if you need any more advice.
dalicia brown
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2006-12-16 18:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Dalicia Brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋