Married women, what would you do? Married men, why do you do things like this?

Question

My husband has used a really degrading answer tone on his phone, and his ring tone for me is about a man wanting to rape a women. Should I be offended by this?

I guess i need to rephrase that, the answer tone is about a married man wanting to cheat on his wife and it is not for me, the one for me is just a ring, the ring tone for me is about a men raping a women. I found out about the answer tone b/c I called from work. One of his co workers told me about the ring tone. I should add that my husband only works w/ young unmarried women & flirts

Answer 1

I'm a married man and I don't do things like this
as I have too much respect for my wife. If I
were you I would talk to him about it as why is
he flirting in the first place. You are his wife and
you need to demand your respect and if he
does not want to give it to you then you need to
let him know what the consequences will be.
Be a woman and don't let him treat you like
that.

Answer 2

Yes, you should be offended by the ringtone. Tell him that it is offensive, and explain why it's offensive. If he's worth anything, he'll take the time to listen to you and change his ringtone. If he's not, just change it when he's not looking and make sure to delete the ringtone from his phone. Then when he confronts you about it, lie and say that you don't even know how to work his phone.

Answer 3

If it's the ring tone JUST for your calls, then yes it's a MAJOR problem.. If it's for ALL his calls, then it's still a problem. Just not quite as major.


Leave him. There's no excuse for behavior like that.

Answer 4

Yes, I would be offended and I'd change it. Be the boss!!

Answer 5

I can't believe you're serious! Read your own question. What do YOU think?

Answer 6

You gotta keep your pimp-hand strong.

Answer 7

It's a telephone, get over it.