Okay, theres this boy Evan, from my school. I started liking him recently, and i gave him a note telling him that i like him, because i was to shy to do it in person. Well, he sent me a email back saying, that we should hang out more before he makes his decision. And lately, im to nervous to be around him, like im scared im gunna screw something up. And everyone says he also likes me, but i dont really see it. Were quite good friends, and have been for the last nine years. but its hard to read him, because hes so shy and won't really show his feelings. i dont know what to do anymore with him. help!?
2006-12-16 11:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just break up with him. he will understand just be friends like you use too. if he really likes you he shouldnt get mad
2006-12-16 11:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Refresco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was like this with the guy i really liked. I was kinda shy and very quiet and he was really quiet too. We'd say hello and that but nothing more. Suddenly my feelings for him just took over and i just started talking more to him, he started to open up and talk to me too. I asked him out to the movies and he said yes and since then we are almost an item!!! He's had some problems so we haven't gone further yet but we're getting there. I think the best thing is just stick with it, maybe he's a bit wary of commitment and needs to see how you are together first. Hang around him more, show him that he can trust you and go out some places. Don't be nervous and don't worry about screwing up, if something is meant to happen it will, it'll come naturally, just build up your confidences first!! Good luck.
2006-12-16 11:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was pretty brave of you. I usually do that too when I have a crush on a guy, I'd usually turn red or never stare directly at him. If you like him, go for it, theres your chance. If he says he two should hang out some more, theres your clue. He likes you back. You two should get to know each other more, so you know how he really is. Just be friends for a while, then go out with him.
2006-12-16 11:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds as if you both are alot alike in that you are both really shy, so he probably feels the same way about you as you do him, likeing each other yet to shy to really do anything about it, if i were you i would hang out with him some more and then hopefully it will work out and you two can be together, don't let the opertunity pass you by simply because you are too shy...
2006-12-16 11:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yu cant just tell him yu like him then blow him off. Start talking to him and just be like hey wana go to the mall or sumthin stuff like that act casual and whatever yu do dont play the stupid girl act cuz thats just lame
2006-12-16 11:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweety_pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that a guy . well he could be shy . thats how i was with my first boyfriend . and he was also shy around me. you should ask him out to a movie and go from there.
2006-12-16 11:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to him girl no matter what u like each other stop complaining
2006-12-16 11:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jolie Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax .. be your self and hang out with him more
2006-12-16 11:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by 05&08 Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur prude
2006-12-16 11:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by someone n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋