So i dont feel like gettin bashed by girls once again so im hopeing some guys will anwser this one to. my last 3 girlfriends i broke up with after 3 weeks because i got bord/ scared becuase they all told me they would always love me no matter what...forever..is that normal. and i loovvee them until we acctaully go out and i know i have them. whats up with that? in no way shape or form am i tryin to be a jackass or mean here.
2006-12-16 10:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by jim c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to know what u want its normal to feel scared but 3 in 3 wasnt such a good idea if they want a serious relationship thats what they will say they want someone to be with them for the rest of their lives but thats ur decicion and i cant run ur life so u need to know what u want instead of just breaking up with whomever said that will love u forever
2006-12-16 11:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by christina bedingfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuneately for you guys out there I'm afraid it does seem to be normal.
Girls want the security that comes with being in a real relationship where guys don't seem to need that security.Girls also mature faster than boys so they're ready for it long before you guys are.Or at least they THINK they are.
I think part of the problem may lie in the fact that there are too many one parent families out there.Girls especially have problems when there's no father figures around to love and protect them.They can't wait to grow up and find a man to give them what they missed with their fathers.
You're right to break up with these girls.And I hope the next one you try to get involved with you're honest from the start and tell her that it turns you off to hear a girl say she loves you before you have the chance to get to really know her.
Theres a big world out there full of women waiting to meet you and men waiting to meet her and limiting yourselves to that "forever"relationship after only a few weeks is just silly.Finding Mr.or Miss Right is an adventure.It's an experience that teaches you alot about yourself as well as other people and how to deal with them.Without this experience you can't grow as a person.
Sure it's hard.Sometimes it's gonna hurt so bad you just want to die.There's gonna be times you're lonely and times you wished you could be alone for just 10 minutes.But when you find that one special person everything you've gone thru will be forgotten and you'll be stronger and confident that every wrong done you and every wrong you've done with a womans feelings won't be repeated and for the most part it'll be smooth sailing.
Don't be depressed and give up looking right yet.I'm noticing more and more young women these days seem to be more concerned with school or carreers than men.Obviously they've come from broken homes and are smart enough to realize that they don't need a man to take care of them.
2006-12-16 11:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope u diden't go with all 3 of them at a time but us girls do the same but it's normal when we say we will always love u that really mean we do but all yall go and do is break up that why yall man have to witch us because we can be out of hand but yes it is very normal wont to hook up sometime.
2006-12-16 11:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dabrina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 02:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, from my personal views, that guys are naturaly scared that when they are dating someone that they think likes or loves them more. I think that you were happy and in love with them before you dated and now that your starting to see what there all about and how much they like you it's scaring you. Don't worry!, if you like the girl than nothing she or you says can break you two up.
2006-12-16 11:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by CompWiz56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls loving girls? Sounds wierd.
2006-12-16 11:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal-it could be worse, if they say: "let's get married" or "will you marry me" (when you're not ready for marriage & just wanna date!)
2006-12-16 11:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** dont say i love you if you dont mean it you'll catch on.im not even gone jam you up
2006-12-16 11:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dalicia Brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋