So this guy recently asked me out. Hes pretty nice and cute and all, but I don't like him that way, i only like him as a friend. I've replied him with a "let me think about it.." So how do I reply in the nicest way possible by saying no?
2006-12-16 10:59:31 · 20 answers · asked by exxohh<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you say...im not interested,,,be honest, thats being nice
2006-12-16 11:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed your chance to do it the nicest way possible. Just tell him you're not interested. It is disrespectful to do otherwise. He may even feel like taking the invitation back because you were luke-warm on the idea...now he has to wait around while you treat him like a schmuck. It's not so easy if the process is dragged out on and on, its embarassing.
2006-12-16 19:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Eric Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no in the nicest way possible. It's no good to string him along, and it wouldn't fair to date him knowing you don't like him that way, so just tell him. He should, I imagine, understand!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-16 19:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, say something like 'I'm flattered you asked me out but I really value our friendship and am not attracted to you romantically'. He might be disappointed and maybe a little embaressed but should appreciate your honesty.
2006-12-16 19:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've encountered this many times before. You just have to be straight forward and tell him that you would rather just be friends. Also, it might be beneficial if you include that you would rather just be friends than leading him on. Just be honest!
2006-12-16 19:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by NAchik09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that ur not interested in him that way! He would appreciate that more that still having hope that he may have a shot!
2006-12-16 19:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady; the truth is always best. Why lead him on. Think about how you would want someone to tell you.
2006-12-16 19:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice and say that you just dont like him and that you only like him as a friend...it worked with my boy problem too and now we are like really good friends
2006-12-16 19:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rawr_Ima_Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him directly, than making a lot of talks. I always say 'sorry' first then I follow it up with 'no.' If he'll ask why, it's either you tell him why or not, it's your choice.
2006-12-16 19:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chimchim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are really flattered and that you think he is a nice guy but that he is really not what you are are looking for
2006-12-16 19:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said it the nicest way you can
2006-12-16 19:02:57 · answer #11 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋