I've liked this girl for about a month now, im i 10th grade and i knw shes the 1... we have talked online and things got wierd when her friend said infront of me and her that i liked her...
we stopped talking untill 1 night b4 a skool bball game and party afterwards me and 2 of my buddies desided to get drunk... so we asked them to save our seats and they were gunna come after the game and have some drinks b4 the party aswell... so after im drunk and go bak to the game and i sit down and lean bak on them and flirt with them...every1 at the game new i was drunnk...
we then walked to my house and were going to have a few drinks b4 the party but they decided not to drink tonight.... and i was putting my arm around the girl of my dreams and supposubly was acting wierd... i really like the girl and she okayed it at first and after like 5 mins.. i took my arm away and her bf was getting anoyed by my actios..
the next day at a hockey game things were greattly akward.
what should ido?
2006-12-16 11:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by duap h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"her bf was getting annoyed", dude, she has a boyfriend? Back off, it's ok to talk to her, be friendly, but if she's interested, she'll let you know. And, sorry, but getting drunk doesn't impress anyone. Now, a guy who plans on going to college or tech school so that he can live well as an adult, that's impressive....
2006-12-16 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the "bf" means boyfriend than don't go after some other guys girl. Unless you have proof that he treats her like crap AND if she has given you signs that she likes you back. If it means best friend than just call the best friend and explain yourself, be mature about everything, tell her you like that other girl and ask her for advice. If she's her best friend, she will probably have important information for you.
Or just call the girl you like and be up front with her. Apologize for your behavior, tell her you had been drinking (even if she already knows) but don't apologize for the drinking. Then, be up front and honest with her, tell her about your feelings but try not to freak her out too much. The one thing I always hated in high school was when I heard that a guy liked me and never did anything about it. Frankly, you should have asked her out before her friend even had the chance to mention it to her but you can't change that so maybe ask her out on a date and if things go well, ask her to be your girlfriend. In the mean time, flirt with her and make it known that she's the only girl for you AND don't take/drink anything that might mess with your judgement if you know you're going to be around her. You're trying to impress her, remember?
2006-12-16 11:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing worse then a drunk fool in love.
She has a boyfriend.
Maybe you should just ask her if you have a chance of ever being more than just friends with her.
2006-12-16 11:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could have got up and walked away. Drunks are a flip off. Underaged drunks are a better flip off. STUPID underaged drunks...good I would not provide you 3 seconds of my time.
2016-09-03 14:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh, dont do anything, if the girl likes u, u both should get together
chemistry may draw u together.
if there is another guy involved, then u may need to move on or make her jealous one--play it by instinct
2006-12-16 11:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont drink. that was a stupid thing to do and u ruined a friendship/relationship because u got drunk. good one.
2006-12-16 11:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just apologize to her for your obnoxious behavior, afterall you were inebriated (drunk). im pretty sure she'll forgive you, just make sure you talk to her one-on-one, no best girlfriends around, they can get nosy and judgemental.
2006-12-16 11:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drinking makes about everything akward. dont do it. simple. plus ur underaged
2006-12-16 11:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you ramble way too much
2006-12-16 11:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking. you're underage.
2006-12-16 11:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋