Met this girl who's friends of a friend a few months back. We became really close and after a few months I expressed interest in becoming more than friends. She kept insisting that we could only be friends but at the same time she would always flirt with me and one night I got sick of it and went to her house and we made out (and I could have slept with her but for some stupid reason I didn't). Her life got a little complicated right after that and she pulled away from me emotionally but we still talk all the time. I'm just wondering if anyone thinks I still have a shot or if I should just cut my losses and forget about it. Should I wait a little while before trying again?
2006-12-16 11:00:52 · 8 answers · asked by achoosneeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should really talk to her. It seems like this is bugging you. Just get it off your chest and maybe she can do the same as well. It is great to have a relationship where you can be open and have no secrets or pressure with eachother. Plus it will take a big load off of your mind. If you really like her, just hang out. Try to be unique and somewhat romantic. Do some little things that might catch her attention, like buying her soup if she's sick or giving her her favorite candy because you stopped at the store for yourself and then thought of her. Don't buy her a bracelet, or treat her to a fancy dinner. That might make you too eager. Just be yourself. Don't give her too much attention because she might know that she's got you wrapped around her little finger.
As for having a shot, maybe. Is she worth it? Is she for short term or long term? If she is long term material go for it, because the good ones will pass you by and sometimes you can get one or two that are truly the ones for your life.
2006-12-16 11:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by kwest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on to number 2
2006-12-16 11:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try talking to her. Get everything out in the open. If she is interested she will say so if not you have not lost a thing.
2006-12-16 11:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put her on the spot, ask her striaght, she will be greatful u was honest. u like her tell her, she obv likes u for kissing you. she prob just upset over the thing u mentioned. just say that u will be mates if thingsdont go the way u would like them to go
2006-12-16 11:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_squidge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is involved with some one, but has proven she still will make it with others if no boy friend threts are around for the night.
2006-12-16 11:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn i like your persistence...you got sick of it, went to her house and made out with her?
where are there more men like you!?!?!?
im tired of shy men!!!!
2006-12-16 11:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, listen to your heart
2006-12-16 11:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*scratches head*
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh?!?!?!?!
i agree with gracielou
2006-12-16 11:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋