2006-12-16 11:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by SMack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its funny that you ask this question today. My wife told me three weeks ago that she wanted to leave me. She is still here but I know she is still here. We talk more often now than ever and she revealed to me today that she wants to have an experience with another woman. We have talked about swinging in the past but I thought it was just fantasy. We have come close(very close) over the years to doing it. My fears held her back. I have no doubt that If I gave the green light, she would have done it. It scares me man. To be honest with you I think that it is dangerous. You want your wife to be fullfilled but you want to be the one to do it. I know of people who have done it and it is about 50/50 on if they stayed together. Is it worth it to her to loose you or is it worth it to you to loose her over a sexual desire. Good luck!
2006-12-16 11:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by mixedupmike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never tried it and to be honest that's the one thing to add spice to a marriage that I don't believe anyone should try. Especially if they don't feel the same way as their spouse. I guess you've got to ask yourself whether you could accept you wife being with someone else. Even though it's with you per say, once you've gone that far, it doesn't seem like it would take much for someone to try it alone. How do you feel about that? I don't think bringing that subject up is even a good sign, maybe you should really sit down and talk all this out. Take care.
2006-12-16 11:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by MB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This kind of fantasy didn't come up in all the 8 years you've been with her? I'd be really careful on this. Fully discuss what could happen, how you both would handle it, make some ground rules and make it a huge point that she can stop this at any time...even if you're right in the middle of it. It can work if you do it right.
2016-03-17 21:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some married couples do some don't. It is up to BOTH partners in the marriage whether to do so or not. If you don't want to then it would not be a good idea for the two of you to do so. Sounds to me as if you're both going in different directions concerning your marriage, could be time for some major communications
2006-12-16 11:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes! My wife and I bought a swing set last year. It's been great. We're out there every weekend with our three year old daughter. We all take turns swinging. I'd recommend it to anyone!
2006-12-16 11:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ross L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's actually pretty fun. Both of you HAVE to be into it though or else you'll never get over watching her with another man. It would be awful for you to agree to something and then decide to get po'd after it's over with. A lot of guys would love for their wife to be that open-minded. And after you think about it, and you decide no, think about why she wants to do it in the first place. Or maybe you should think about that first.
2006-12-16 11:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wifes a freak, lol! Well, if that is something you are ok with, go for it. But monogamy can be a b****. I know married couples, so this is not something I've related to. If you're not ok with it, you really need to let her know.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-16 11:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, it WILL ruin your marriage! No matter how comfortable with the situation you both feel you are it will eventually stir up feelings of jealousy! This is natural human emotions, particularly if you love someone, it's inevitable! Is it really worth all the problems it could cause?
2006-12-16 11:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by xalia331 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your wife wants is to commit adultery. Why be married if you are not going to take your marriage vows seriously and make a mockery out of marriage and God. I can tell you that if you do this your marriage is going to end in disaster and most likely divorce. God will never honor and bless something that is such a blatant sin against him.
2006-12-16 11:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
your just gonna let some guy get naked and crawl all over your wife?! You are out of your mind?!
2006-12-16 11:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋