Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

"Another Day in The Life"
By: DJ
i may have to wait a while but i guess its worth the time.
time... it will continue to happen like normal everyday life.
life... now i wouldnt be liven if i never thought.
thought... of things i want.
want... is a crime when you cant have.
have... nothing is what it feels like.
like... well everything about it.
it... will just have to wait.
wait... well what if i.......

2006-12-12 16:00:46 · 4 answers · asked by D J 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend recently broke up and i thimk she still likes me and i still like her, but she's not the best at expressing her feelings and neither am I. What do i need to do to get this girl back because i think im falling in love with her?

2006-12-12 15:59:47 · 19 answers · asked by miamililboy 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy i have liked for quite sometime. he knows i do, but hasnt pursued me since he became single. how can i really grab his attention? i am a little shy....

2006-12-12 15:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by southernsweetheartt24 1 in Singles & Dating

My late spouse passed almost 3 years ago of a brain tumor. My family are interstate and I have never built a network of friends.

I have since married and now have a 7 month daughter. I was desperate to move forward with my life. I am sure I rushed at this.

I cannot speak of this to my wife, we have spoken in the past about it, but all it does is end up hurting her. You cannot compete with someone that is no longer present and in someone's fantasy.

I still have her ashes in the garage, and obviously ignoring this does not make it fade away. I am unsure if I love my current wife, but I want to do the best for my daughter.

I still feel guilty and angry about her passing. She was such a greater person than me, and if I had a choice I would have died for her. All I can do about my anger is rationalize it, as no one was to blame, it never gets directed anywhere.

I don't know what to do

2006-12-12 15:59:39 · 7 answers · asked by bumbass2003 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was a foster kid and moved from home to home. I never really got settled in one place so i never really bonded with a family. Now i am 19 and on my own. I have lots of friends but they will be with their family's on the holidays and i really don't enjoy celebrating the holidays cuz of the past so i turned down a number of invitations to others homes. I have no family whatsoever... so does anyone have any suggestions as to what i should do to the pass the time? I could spend it being depressed but i'de rather not. been there done that, don't want to do it again. please help.

2006-12-12 15:59:25 · 11 answers · asked by AngelU 2 in Family

After complaining about not getting enough sex from her my wife responded with "Go get what you want, I just don't want to know about it!"
How upset should I be because that is plain nuts?
Nuts if she really is ok with that and nuts if she said it but didn't mean it!

Should I take her up on it?

2006-12-12 15:58:43 · 19 answers · asked by I'm Gumby Damnit! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl that acts like she's still two years old and uses a baby voice to talk or one that acts her age and doesn't pout about silly things?

2006-12-12 15:57:38 · 12 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright,


You and a guy meet. It's the first time you do and he says he'd like to see you again and asks for your number.

Question why do you give him a number and then not answer or return calls?

Why can't you just say "No" or "Not now"?

2006-12-12 15:57:36 · 19 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

I have an 8 year old daughter, a 2 year old girl and a 9 month old son. There is a significant age gap between my first two children. My eldest daughter was an only child for so long I think it went to her head. She is constantly bossing around my younger daughter as though she is the mother. I constantly ask her to please be a good big sister and look out for her younger siblings but she insists on whining, tattling, threatening and bossing her sister. I feel as though every time I turn around she is trying to place her younger sister on time-out or tell her what to do. They are at each other's throats...and my younger daughter is only 2.

My 8 year old girl can be great and sweet at times. But I fear that she thinks she is in control rather than a child. She talks back to me at every request I make. She whines when she doesn't get exactly what she wants. She fake cries with gusto when she is denied an explaination for everything. What should I do to correct these behaviours?

2006-12-12 15:57:09 · 4 answers · asked by BellaLuna 2 in Family

To show my support, Where Can I get one?

2006-12-12 15:56:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 15:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its a guy at my school that whenever im by myself he has a blank stare no smile, just nonchalant stare. i dont like it. he does it when he's around females and when he's by himself. he never says anything, but in public he speaks to me all the time that makes me confused. i havent conversed with him before

2006-12-12 15:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by youngj042004 5 in Friends

This guy at work is awesome and he basically told me that he found me extremely attractive and believes me to be a great person. So why hasn't he called me then? He even said that he would like to go out sometime..... Should I be patient and just give it sometime or is he just NOT interested in me?

2006-12-12 15:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i can't seem to give my girlfriend an orgasm even though im going for 20 mins straight and my penis is 6-7 inches according to how horny i am. She says she loves it n keeps moaning in pleasure all the time but then y doesn't she get an orgasm. I guess i should add that she was a virgin till 3 weeks ago n we meet every weekend so we only had sex a few times. She is in pain everytime we do it and if i get too "excited" she stops me cause she gets hurt. Last time she even bled and i though she had her period at first but she told me later that she didn't (we had sex later so she had to tell me). Am i doing something wrong? Is it because of the pain? I know I'm reaching her g-spot cause I know were it is. Once while we were having sex she stopped me twice to rest a few seconds and then let me back in again. Most of the sex is in medium pace (cause she wanted it that way). Do u think i should increase the speed? I also changed positions alot, NOTHING seems to work, Please help me out!!

2006-12-12 15:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for at least 2 months now and we talk and go out to parties and gatherings. I liked someone before but found they didnt respond to me after a while, and this friend caught me with her a fortnight ago. She said she was upset that i was 'too busy socialising' to notice her but after that she said that i'm forgiven and that i owe her lunch to make up. I agreed to invite her to lunch this week. We havent seen each other since the party but i send her flirty comments online and she laughs at them, and yesterday, i had a long day of work but we talked through sms until 3 in the morning. Do you think she likes me?

2006-12-12 15:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im curious cause everyone i see is hooked up so i want to ask is anyone out there havin trouble hooking up around during the lonliest time of the year? any tips for getting a date?

2006-12-12 15:52:13 · 2 answers · asked by nik m 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, most of you probably don't care either way but, I just always feel so different from everyone in my family..... My kin tests me out frequently to see what I'm capable of but I always fail everything... No matter what I try, I just don't meet their expectations..... They're never happy with whatever I do.... Even my cousins are distant towards me..... What should I do?

2006-12-12 15:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by Myst 2 in Family

It's such a touchy subject, so how would you go about bringing up the topic of wanting a prenuptial agreement with your spouse to be?

2006-12-12 15:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

the happy ones but horror stories too. What turns you off and what do you like?

2006-12-12 15:50:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help i need something fun to do on the computer because im grounded from going anywhere or hanging out with friends.

2006-12-12 15:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Family

What has the world come to when a woman with a job has no kids and tries to dates some one with simualer morals and ideals. All i want to know is why is it harder and harder to find the person ment for you, that fits your life and has the same kinda goal in life. It seems i have tried every where and even droped some of my standers and still gets me no where.

2006-12-12 15:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by klovestie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...well im catching up with this guy that i used to see (we live 1&1/2 hrs drive away from each other so we have never 'fully been together'...but were seeing each other for awhile after we met)

Anyway, I havent seen him for a year...(he's contacted me a few times durning the year though and has started emailing me lately.) I got an email from him last week saying he will be in my town for xmas and asked me to go out to lunch or something to catch up. So of course i said yes...(i still really like the guy & wish we could be together, i just dont know if he feels the same way tho so im just playing it casual atm) We arranged for him to call me when he gets here next week & arrange lunch then. (so i havent spoken to him since)

Should i just leave it now and wait for him to call me when he gets here like we arranged?? OR should i contact him beforehand just to chat b4 he gets here (i just dont want to make things awkward and mess things up but i also dont want him to forget...

2006-12-12 15:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Singles & Dating

Im a Capricorn according to astrology what would be the best astrological sign to "hook up" with??

2006-12-12 15:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what to do!!! I have revenge in my grasp, but im feeling guilty about it, i dont know if I should do it or not!!! This person has hurt me soooo much and this person has even admitted that they made my life a living hell!!! But i dont know if I can hurt this person enough to make there life a living hell by even possibly having them arrested!!! I dont know what to do!!! I might go through with it but im not sure!! please help!! advice or life experience??? please!!!

2006-12-12 15:49:10 · 15 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

When friends say"how am I?" I just say fine...even when I'm not...

I'm in highschool, my friends always flake out so why should I tell them how I really am doing since they are really never there?? I can't tell when they are sincere.

But they can ramble on and on about every little crummy detail to why their life sucks. It's getting to the point why I can't show much sympathy anymore. Beacuse their lives really aren't that bad!

2006-12-12 15:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We were planning to get married after he gets home from iraq after 1year,unfortunatly I found out he cheated on me before he left,I dont want to mention it while he is in the war.because I dont want him to get stressed out.but at the same time I am living with the hurt and I have to wait on him for 1 year.and he could even be cheating again with the females overthere to.what a nerv reck for me should I tell him or wait on him for a whole year

2006-12-12 15:49:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and they tell you over the phome that they were going to kick you in your stomach ind kill your baby ?

2006-12-12 15:48:49 · 19 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Family

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-12 15:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

Just because a man has sex with a woman, does it mean he loves her? Do men have sex with women they don't love?

2006-12-12 15:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

they hardly ever say bye
they just leave (during conversations)
why do girls do this ?
it SERIOUSLY gets annoying

2006-12-12 15:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating