I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again
2006-12-12 15:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you do, don't make her feel uncomfortable at work. She does not want to seem unprofessional to her peers...You may want to slip her a note (being very careful not to look like a bank robber demanding money) asking her if you could meet up after she's done. Banks close kinda early too, you could wait for her to finish.
2006-12-12 15:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the time of day ask her what she is doing for lunch or dinner. If she is doing something, ask her if she's free tomorrow. That way even if she didn't get the hint the first time, the second time around comes across as you're not just inquiring but that you are asking. If she gives you a blank look, already have some place in mind and tell her, there's a great (insert cuisine here) restaurant in (insert area - best if in general neighborhood of bank) that I'd love to take you too. Now you're confident, bold and definitely interested. Assume she's single until she tells you otherwise. Don't say one of those, your boyfriend or husband is a lucky man lines. They are too corny. Too, too corny. If she tells you have one, be casual about it, you can say something like, oh well, bad luck then. If she declines for any reason be graceful, and whenever you do see her afterwards just be as pleasant as if it had never happened. Smile and nod.
2016-05-23 16:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may politely be doing her job and being good to you just as she is good to other customers. But, to satisfy your curiousity, go inside the bank and whenever she waits on you, you can at least talk with her and ask her whether you may like to grab something to eat for dinner or something. It may not work but that would at least be a way to start.
2006-12-12 15:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how big is your account? the bigger the better
next don't ever hand her a note, the bank security guard might shoot ya
but seriously ask her what she is doing friday night, if she says not much or don't know, just let her know where you will be, if she shows up U R N
LIKE STATED ABOVE DON'T EVER DO THAT, MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A CAT BOY AND YOU MIGHT GET SHOT LOL
2006-12-12 15:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass her a card with your name and phone number and write on it: 'I'll to get to know you, will you have lunch with me' Then take it from there.
2006-12-12 15:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋