What has the world come to when a woman with a job has no kids and tries to dates some one with simualer morals and ideals. All i want to know is why is it harder and harder to find the person ment for you, that fits your life and has the same kinda goal in life. It seems i have tried every where and even droped some of my standers and still gets me no where.
2006-12-12 15:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by klovestie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you should also take note that we women love men in ads too but not really that much were pretty much realistic, you know why we women dont get the men that we want because we have standards that are too low, we accept and love men eventhough they are drunkards, irresponsible and cheaters, we still love them-we women are personally crazy because we do accept them just so we could say that we have a man , and we beleive that without men we are nothing, but that is totally untrue, we dont need a man to make us feel complete, quit searching for the right man for you, and quite lowering your standards, instead keep it up, stay away from good for nothing men, we should love ourselves first before we find someone we think could complete us, we complete ourselves, you complete you,
as hard as it is, you dont need men to define you, define yourself, remember the song of jessica simpson, i belong to me, i dont belong to you,
the point here is you are trying too much and too hard, that you even disregard what you want just so someone could love you- woman i tell you know its enough to be you and when you do fall for someone its not because he could complete you, but because you want to share your life without expecting something in return.
2006-12-12 15:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie when u find out let me know ! ha ha i mean i've been in the same boat for yrs and dont understand it..
i dont think that u have to drop ur standards or even get desoparte.. just have faith and hope that oneday u will find someone..
cuz realyl thats all thats keeping me in the game !
2006-12-12 15:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking for love in all the wrong places. You should do the opposite of whatever you're doing now. If you go to nice places to meet nice men, try going to ratty dives to meet dirty men. If dirty men aren't fulfilling your needs, let me offer the following rejoinder: "why do women want the men in ads?"
2006-12-12 15:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad to hear this, I thought something was wrong with me but it turns out that a lot of people are not having good luck with relationships now days. Keep hoping but don't stress yourself!
2006-12-12 15:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait the right guy will be just around the corner when you are least expecting it
2006-12-12 16:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying far too hard! If it is meant to be, it will be!
2006-12-12 15:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They look more pretty than me.
2006-12-12 15:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to my world. Take a seat let's compare notes/
2006-12-12 16:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋