Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

He has all these opportunities to talk to me but he just doesn't. He prefers to keep his distance. PS we were reasonably close before

2006-12-12 16:27:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am through the roof atracted to this guy. I have to find a way to forget I ever met him because seeing him brings on the whole heart ache crap. How do I forget him? What could I do that would keep me busy?

2006-12-12 16:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had or given oral sex and I am nervous about him doing it because it is his first time giving head and I know it's an experience we can share together but I am just so nervous and I'm more nervous about getting it than giving it. What tips can you give me about getting and giving oral sex to prepare me? Please serious answers only, thanks.

2006-12-12 16:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've lived in California my whole life and im just ready for a move, i'm sick of it here, its just to expensive for us. My work has laid us all of and 2/28/2007 is our last day. There moving to Hillsboro, Oregon and offered us jobs if we're willing to relocate, at no cost to them thu so we'll have to pay for our move. I've looked at apartments, houses and townhouses and its so nice and cheap up there. For a 3 bedroom nice new townhouse it was only $1100. Thats how much I pay now for a small 1 bedroom apartment. Would u take the move. I'm so nervous. I wanna do it but just not alone. I live with my BF of 5 years and he's willing to do it. But he would rather 1 of us {me} go up there and try it out 1st, then he'll come up. He would move back into his parents house for a few months not pay rent and send me money. I just dont know. I wanna do it but i'm so scared. How can i push myself to do it.

2006-12-12 16:25:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-12 16:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by anh h 1 in Singles & Dating

ONE DAY AFTERSCHOOL I WAS WALKING WITH A GUY AND TALKING. WHEN I WAS GOING TO LEAVE HE ASKED ME "WOULD IT BE WEIRD IF I ASKED YOU TO GIVE ME A KISS?" I WAS SURPRISED HE SAID "IN THE CHEEK! IN THE CHEEK!" I SAID OK. SO I GAVE HIM A KISS IN THE CHEEK. THEN I LEFT AND HE LFT TOO. THE NEXT DAY THEY WERE RUMORS THAT I WAS WITH HIM, BUT WE WERENT. OUR FRIENDS WERE ASKING US LIKE FOR DAYS. ONE DAY MY BEST FRIEND ASKED HIM WHY DID HE ASK ME FOR A KISS. HE SAID BECAUSE HE WANTED A KISS FROM ME. MY FREIND ASKED HIM IF HE LIKED ME. HE KEPT ON SAYING MAYBE. UNTIL THEN HE SAID A LITTLE BIT. MY FRIEND JUST REPEATED THAT. THEN SHE TOLD ME THAT. AND I WAS SURPRISED. WHEN HE SEES MY FRIEND HE ALWAYS ASKS FOR ME OR WHEN HE CALLS MY FRIEND HE ASKES HER FOR ME. WHEN HE SEES ME HE TALKS TO ME LIKE WHATEVER. LIKE IF HE DOESNT FEEL NOTHING FOR ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. GUYS HELP. LOVE EXPERTS HELP. I REALLY NEED ADVISE!

2006-12-12 16:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with with this girl for about almost two years now. But, lately I feel that we are not friends anymore just friendly towards eachother. I feel this way because my friend has not been making good choices lately. She drinks frequently and goes to the bar about three times a night except when she is not working. I'm afraid she has become an achoalic. Her father is afraid too. I have tried to persaude her on several occasions to do something with me instead of going to the bar. But, it is not working and the situation is only getting worse. She stop caring about her appearance and self image. She is overweight and is not trying to help herself. I have tried to go for walks with her but, lately all she wants to do is go to the bar, drink, and pick up old men. It has gotten to the point where I'm realizing that maybe we should stop being friends. I have tried everything but, nothing is getting through to her. I'm getting frusterated. Is it time to end this friendship?

2006-12-12 16:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

ya know.. lovers often do it. what's the agenda behind it anyway??//

2006-12-12 16:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My more than a friend, not quite a girlfriend hasn't returned my calls in 2 days. All three times I called her, the phone didn't ring so she didn't have it on. I have no reason to believe I did anything, what do you think? She usually has a lot of homework, but you would think she would check her phone once in a while.

2006-12-12 16:23:13 · 3 answers · asked by Grizzly UM 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 16:22:39 · 15 answers · asked by sandeep s 1 in Friends

when my boyfriend rips them around me I'm like; what if I walked around all day ripping them next to you? he says he thinks it would be cool- is that for real? and do guys ever grow out of this?

2006-12-12 16:22:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in boarding school and he tells me how much he misses me. He broke down the other day, because he wants to come back home. But if he comes back home that will mess up his school credits and I don't want that to happen. Everything does not seem very good to him right now, because he failed a class by 2 pts and now his mom has to pay double for his scholarship. He does not want that. He said he prays everyday, but it does not seem right for some reason. What is going on? I read the bible to him. But, I want to give my boyfriend some great advice to cheer him up. Please help me!!! ASAP!

2006-12-12 16:21:46 · 3 answers · asked by alteacorea07 2 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if somebody who tells you they aren't in love with you could change their mind and fall in love with you later on in life as they get to know you better. Can somebody ever fall in love with another person whom they didn't love before? People do change.

2006-12-12 16:21:19 · 19 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I sought a lover and responded to one guy online and we met and have been having an affair (he is married) for over a year and the sex is great and he is a nice normal person with a good education, job, good family life, has friends, and does normal things but when I try to meet a man to date and have a future with, all the guys are either weird, unsophisticated, broke, ugly, have alot of baggage, or are emotioinally unavailable. They are too busy to meet or they disappear after the first date. If one can find a normal man online to have as a lover, why aren't there any normal single men?

2006-12-12 16:21:02 · 20 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 16:20:37 · 5 answers · asked by ellehcor 1 in Singles & Dating

...yourself staring at some VERY attractive person and then after realizing it hoping no one noticed? How many of you have done this, are some people truly mesmerizing?

2006-12-12 16:19:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NO I am not joking..It is a curious question I am wondering.. What was it like? I am 6'7" and wonder what it would be like the closest I ever got to a midget was a women who was 4'7"..

2006-12-12 16:18:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok the breakdown is that we went through a time where we both broke down completely and separated as boyfriend and girlfriend
(college had a part to do with it) and we are over 900 miles away. Recently we have tried to mend things and its working great and we are better than we were before even though we aren't anything official. During this time she was confused and was swept by this guy at her school. We were separated and they did some things a few times ( I haven't specifically asked, but i have a really good idea) it was a full out hand job... She is supposed to tell me about this over x-mas break, but how should i react to this?? We only have two weeks or so together and i don't want to be sad or anything. She's apologized and everything and is sorry, but i am extremely hurt by this. I don't know...What should I do????!?!

2006-12-12 16:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

To summarize a long and complicated story:
Me and my girlfriend of 18 months recently broke up. She was my first love and I was hers. Everything was going great. We spent nearly all of our time together: everyday after school, everyweekend day, every family vacation. We couldn't get sick of each other. I'm 19 years old and she's 16. I got a lot of crap from people about this in the beginning of our relationship but for some reason I still dated her.

Things were amazing till I went off to college. We were only 45 min apart so the distance wasn't terrible but it was a huge adjustment for both of us since we basically spent every waking moment together. I came home nearly every weekend of the first quarter to see her and she just acted distant. I confronted her about it and she broke down crying. She said I took a piece of her with me to college and she needed to find it. She needed to find out how to be happy on her own. She said she still had hope.

2006-12-12 16:18:41 · 9 answers · asked by matt 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for a lil more than 2 years. and we have been talking very seriously about marriage. this summer he found out that he is going to kuwait for a year. he chose to postpone the engagement and wedding till he comes back. i personally hate that idea, but he's the man so i'll do what he wants with this one. he knows that i want to at least get engaged before he leaves, but he thinks it would be a better idea to wait till he comes back. Am i crazy? or is this a good idea?
he's a specialist in the amry if that makes any diff. i'm 19 and he's 21.

2006-12-12 16:18:32 · 20 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

BYE AND DONT FORGET, THERE IS A NEW DAY TOMMAROW!


WELL IM OFF BIATCHS AND TAKE CARE! :)

2006-12-12 16:18:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to get my younger brother something for christmas but he doesnt know what he wants. What are some good ideas to get him? He's 14.

2006-12-12 16:18:01 · 19 answers · asked by Nick A 3 in Family

2006-12-12 16:17:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend and told him I didn't want to deal with a boyfriend because no offence to him but he was quite the drama king.Today my best friend who happens to be a boy told me he likes me and can't get over me.He is like an older brother to me.He's only one year older and I really can be open to him...about everything!But I am still deciding if I have those kind of feeling for him...Help!What should I do?

2006-12-12 16:16:59 · 8 answers · asked by sunshinee<3 3 in Singles & Dating

yea, jus doin a research paper....how many guys were tempted to read this by the way the question was formatted.....id appreciate responses.....watever u may feel like sayin after this...im sure it dissappointed you.....but i really need answers....and alot of them...thanx.

2006-12-12 16:16:25 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys, when you flirt what are some specific things you do when you flirt? What is the difference when you are flirting just for the heck of it or fun or when you are interested/attracted to a girl?

THANKS!! :)

2006-12-12 16:15:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

chubby, fat, skinny? if you had to choose only 1 of the 3 for your partner whom would it be,
and i would want to know, is it true that some men have a fetish or want for fat women?
if you are one of them can you explain why?

2006-12-12 16:15:35 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 16:15:20 · 13 answers · asked by pawankumar162003 1 in Singles & Dating

would you ever or would you won't to have a 3 some with your wife/husband an someone else?

2006-12-12 16:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by when you THOUGHT shit matters 2 in Friends

They spent a few year in Fort Hood Texas. She work at a kidney dialysis clinic in Killeen. She had a step son mike. Lived in a mobile home park behind Ellison High School. If anybody knows the best way to find her or actually knows her. Let me know. Don't want to spend a fortune on address search websites.
Lori S

2006-12-12 16:14:48 · 2 answers · asked by looknout4mrright 1 in Friends