My boyfriend is in boarding school and he tells me how much he misses me. He broke down the other day, because he wants to come back home. But if he comes back home that will mess up his school credits and I don't want that to happen. Everything does not seem very good to him right now, because he failed a class by 2 pts and now his mom has to pay double for his scholarship. He does not want that. He said he prays everyday, but it does not seem right for some reason. What is going on? I read the bible to him. But, I want to give my boyfriend some great advice to cheer him up. Please help me!!! ASAP!
2006-12-12 16:21:46 · 3 answers · asked by alteacorea07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Compromise and make a deal with him. Say you'll sacrifice your money and hour to talk to him more then usual to make him comfortable, but he has to do his part of the deal by trying his best at school and try to be brave.
Send him photos and gifts and always give him support and reassurence. He may feel insecure and think you'll forget him. Do more communicatoin and when there's time, take an effort to visit him at least once. Its a lot of work on your part, but your the supportive girlfriend who cant let his man down...
It may also be good to tell him how happy you'll be when he's succeeds and how your waiting to hear him happy and brave. It'll give him a hint that that is what you want, and he'll try his best to do it for you...
2006-12-12 16:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience is the key , girl tell your boyfriend that everything may seem wrong in his life but if he thinks about things positive and keep a smile on his face then things can go good, but very slow progress, O, and tell him don't leave school he made it too far! and good luck.
2006-12-12 16:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can...visit him
but if thats not possible, then tell him to look to the future...the positive things
both of you will be together, and everything will work out in the end
that should be his motivation for finishing school
good luck and god bless!
2006-12-12 16:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋