I wonder if somebody who tells you they aren't in love with you could change their mind and fall in love with you later on in life as they get to know you better. Can somebody ever fall in love with another person whom they didn't love before? People do change.
2006-12-12 16:21:19 · 19 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's possible, but do you really want to wait and find out? You're going to feel real stupid on your deathbed if all you did was wait for the other person and they never changed their mind. Accept the situation for what it is now. If things change, you're lucky, but don't expect it to.
2006-12-12 16:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by FucAlloYu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people sometimes change, but don't push it. Whether or not he falls in love with you later, he's not in love with you right now, and if you're too pushy now, there might never be a later. Plus, you have to think about where this relationship is going for you. I don't really know your situation. If you've only been dating for a short time and he likes you but he's not ready to make that sort of committment to you yet, that's okay. Give him time. But if you've been dating for a long time and this is what he's telling you to try to break up with you, then you need to move on and find someone who'll really love you and make you happy.
2006-12-12 16:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends upon the persons thought about you if you are close to the guy or gal (like a friend) who refused ur love may change during the time being a constant show of your " true " love and caring towards the person will do the magic try it out. I dont know anything about this love stuff but still i thought i may answer your question right
2006-12-12 16:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by phoenix_karthick_2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it happens all the time. Thats just like what happens when you have a really close friend of the opposite sex and at first you could never see yourself being with them or having a relationship with them but then when you get to know each other and are around each other all the time you start to grow fond of each other and like each other. It is definitely possible to fall in love with someone you never thought you could fall in love with before.
2006-12-12 16:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by cjcheerleader18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! It's a part of life!
When I was little, I LOVED this guy named E.W. (don't ask for his real name because I don't know), but guess what? It changed. I changed. The type of love can also change.
I didn't love my husband as I do now when we first met. In fact, I didn't love him at all. It took years for that to develop.
Just because you think you love someone doesn't mean it's set in stone.
2006-12-12 16:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether people change is heresay, but it is true you never realize what you have til its gone.
But the opportunity that existed before you or they knew you loved someone is limited.
It IS possible to grow to love someone that you initially didnt have those feelings for. It could be a case of getting to know a persons traits and faults and loving them for that.
Its possible.
2006-12-12 16:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by PointToThaSky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, people do change. But imagine someone you don't love following you around hoping one day you will change your mind. If you are hung up on someone, move on. This is psycho territory and you don't want to end up like that.
2006-12-12 16:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think deep down inside, the still love you
Words don't mean anything. Actions do.
2006-12-12 16:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by soccerkik17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could happen but I wouldn't wait to see and have the chance of disappointment.
2006-12-12 16:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That's when the game and chase begins.
2006-12-12 16:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋