I have been friends with with this girl for about almost two years now. But, lately I feel that we are not friends anymore just friendly towards eachother. I feel this way because my friend has not been making good choices lately. She drinks frequently and goes to the bar about three times a night except when she is not working. I'm afraid she has become an achoalic. Her father is afraid too. I have tried to persaude her on several occasions to do something with me instead of going to the bar. But, it is not working and the situation is only getting worse. She stop caring about her appearance and self image. She is overweight and is not trying to help herself. I have tried to go for walks with her but, lately all she wants to do is go to the bar, drink, and pick up old men. It has gotten to the point where I'm realizing that maybe we should stop being friends. I have tried everything but, nothing is getting through to her. I'm getting frusterated. Is it time to end this friendship?
2006-12-12 16:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her and tell her how you really feel (when shes sober)!! go out shopping and talk and then from there you did your part then its up to her to see if she wants to continue being your friend
2006-12-12 16:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! No man, don't end up the friendship. This time, she really needs your help, try what ever you can to stop her from drinking. And remember if you success that, she will never forget you.
2006-12-13 01:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by sakaria h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think now is when she needs you most.
you have to think of some way to get through to her.
and make her see what shes become.
call her. plan a dinner date way ahead of time...so she can't say no.
and at dinner ask her what happened to herself.
and point out the obvious, about her weight.
it will be hurtful.
but thats the only way to get through.
2006-12-13 00:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't leave her at least at this time, coz am sure that she need ur help, she need ur support very much for her problem.
try to talk to her..
2006-12-13 00:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick by her she will sometime down the road need you.
Im going though the same thing with my bestfriend
2006-12-13 00:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by preppy_gurl101010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably tired of your self-righteous a s s.
2006-12-13 10:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋