Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

Would that totally put you off? Personally I can't help assuming that if a person wants to have unprotected sex with me without asking me any questions at all about my history.... it means that they've likely been very careless as to where they've put their d*ck in the past and they might well be a risk. Why are guys often so keen to throw caution to the wind and risk STDs and unwanted pregnancy?

2006-12-12 17:17:14 · 26 answers · asked by ohmygoodness! 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.Her boyfriend has a car plus license and I don't. She doesn't have her's either.

I'm geting my license soon. But a car will take a while.

2006-12-12 17:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im depressed all the tiem and i cry alot. and i sit home all day. im soo pathetic. and the only time im happy is when im iwth my bf,

What can i do to be happier?

GRRRRRRRRRRRR er43-u5-893ed

2006-12-12 17:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like chubby blonde or asian boys w/ chubby rosy cheeks.

2006-12-12 17:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex and I are talking about getting back together, we have been broken up for 6 months now and we are both still very much in love. One problem, she dated three other guys in those past 6 months and slept with each of them, I never took her to be so promiscuous but I guess I was wrong, I know I have no right to judge her but...I know two of the guys and one of them I absolutley despise. Should I suck it up and just deal with it, should I give myself time to heal and eventually with time it will fade, or should I just give up on love in search for a new one. I feel like im in a lose lose situation, I'm miserable without her but I feel I might be miserable with her thinking about what has happened...I myself have not slept with anyone! I am still in love with her and didnt think it was right to go out on the rebound..Any thoughts? I'm sure eventually i'll get over her, and maybe ill eventually get over whats happened...I feel like im in a pretty cruddy situation lol...

2006-12-12 17:14:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:13:26 · 8 answers · asked by Raghu Vamsi 1 in Singles & Dating

We have 2 years dating, im 28 yrs old, i prefer to know what are the expectations that your couple have about you and him. So i let him know...(never ask, or begg) what im looking in a couple now, what im expecting in a relationship. What i told him was that for my future i want to have a family, and marry. I just wanted to be clear and to talk what im looking, but that doesnt mean that he has to marry me and have kids. Because each human has different goals and plans for future. So my only question or comment were i want this, i need this, we are at the same level for to continue or if not please allow me to looking in somewhere else, if you are not looking the same than me, it doesnt mean you or me are wrong is that just we are looking different things. It was a good idea for me to ask him what he is looking now?

2006-12-12 17:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Giovanna P 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some good truth and dare questions for an all girls sleepover?

2006-12-12 17:12:21 · 10 answers · asked by make love not war 3 in Friends

Pl do help help help me..frank suggestions..?
i have been in love with a person since 4yrs and we used to be very loving..
but then he started to take "over care"(thts wht he says)on me and even till today never allows me to meet friends or even talk on phone to others.i ought to inform everything...
all thse yrs,i got used to it,but once i promised him i will be the girl as u wish to be..unable to see his sadness...may be i thought i could come down a bit..
since then we didnt hav any prob,though i could feeel the decreasing love..
now,at present,he still more decreased the ways of showing love...
he feels i dont love him enough..
there is no more passion and love as it was before..i did really love to have it all over again..by my man doesnt seem to understand and each time i say so,he keeps reducing love.

pl give me some tips..i m really getting depressed..Pl tell me HOW DO I MAKE HIM FEEL MY LOVE?we stay far from each other..only phone..

NO MEAN COMMENTS PL..

2006-12-12 17:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by For peace 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She cheated, and I forgive after sometime. She wanted a break, I said hell na, she wanted a divorse and I was like hell to the na na. To the point it messed with my carrier because I would'nt sign papers and wanted to work it out with her. I told her if you do this it's over! Now 1yr later she calling and doing all that flirt stuff. I still love her but damn! Is she being real. Need only sistas with real answers on this one.

2006-12-12 17:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by SOLO KING 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is it wrong to have sex with a step sister if its concentual of corse

2006-12-12 17:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you believe in love at first sight? or should i walk by you again....
or straight out.....Save water Shower wit a Soldier.....lol

2006-12-12 17:06:21 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if a guy is introducing himself to you and one of your guy friends comes up and puts his hand on your shoulder and squeezes it, looks at you and then glares at the guy that is introducing himself to you??

2006-12-12 17:06:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:06:14 · 9 answers · asked by julia_rey 1 in Family

okay so the guy never asked me if it was okay to have sex, but i never said "no". It was all just pretty aggressive.... it kinda seemed like rape i dont know.... i never told him to stop though. We both went down on each other too. im so confused. Does this seem like rape?

2006-12-12 17:05:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My and my 'best friend' have know eachother since 2nd grade. I love her to death and I can talk to her about anything but I think she is a compulsive liar. I constantly catch her lying. Its gotten worst since high school and its always things that would make me a little jealous if they were true. Do you think she feels the need to compete with me?

2006-12-12 17:05:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Girlfriend goes to college in Virginia and im still in CT she is seven hour drive away and i just got cought cheating she comes back for break on thurs and i just got cought for cheating on her how do i get her back? What are somethings that i could do to show her im sorry and get her trust back and get her back.

2006-12-12 17:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:04:49 · 25 answers · asked by -:¦:-SKY-:¦:- 7 in Singles & Dating

My gf tied me to a chair and started stripping for me even though I did not asked for it which really surprised me. Then later she pull down my pants and started doing me and kissing me all over my body which drived me crazy. I would just like to know why she did this to me even though I did not asked for it?

2006-12-12 17:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by FoxyB 5 in Singles & Dating

When my bf comes over to my house and before we make love, he always goes to the washroom and comes back out. I have noticed everytime he has gone to the washroom he always has a thicker penis and he seems to last long during sex. But when he doesn "go to the washroom" he doesnt seem to last that long and his penis seems alot softer I guess. I have asked him if he aplied anything on but he always says no-or changes the question. But i have also noticed sex is always alot beter when he does seem to last long. It always has some sorta smell to it too ...like some cream i guess. So my question is, is there any sort of formula, pills, or some sort that makes him last longer or somthing??? Since he's not telling me I decided I need to do a little reserch.

2006-12-12 17:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by MeaMea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Relapse..drug addiction.?
i fear my boyfriend is having a relapse... hes doing the whole isolation thing and wont call me or his mom back, which before he went to rehab meant he was off using... i dont know how to react... i am pissed, but i know blowing up wont help the situation, but if i just let him get away with it then he will think its okay and IT IS NOT. ive already told him i cant go though the whole additive addiction again, but i also know people slip, i want to help him get back on track but i dont want him to think i will just sit here and go through this again and again... i wont. please help!

ive been working my own recovery as far as being co-dependent and i go to naranon, so i know i cant "fix" it... im not trying to do that, im tryin to manage my own reaction to his action and i need help on what the most constructive way of doing this would be...

2006-12-12 17:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-12 17:01:27 · 11 answers · asked by arra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im really annoyed with this girl now.....all signs say she likes me......but we had a patch where there was no communication, and then she was back to normal for awhile...now shes making me do all the work....i haveto txt her for her to txt back, i have to message her on msn, i have to talk...even at work, she used to always talk to me....now i have to make allthe effort.....is she telling me something???she used to always take me out on lunches, movies, dinner, and often coffee after work....maybe she got angry i didnt ask her already?

2006-12-12 16:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 16:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been on plenty of dates but at 22 yrs old have never kissed a guy since like 4th grade......because I am so scared of guys judging me since I am older and more than likely not great at kissing since I am not experienced.....How can I get past this so I can furthur my relationship with someone?! How can I get good at it and loosen up!?

2006-12-12 16:59:28 · 28 answers · asked by gcrowders 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm trying to locate a friend of mine from the past,her last known address was from 1991,and i can't seem to locate her new address.

2006-12-12 16:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by B.B. 1 in Friends

OK, my best guy friend and I have been getting even closer lately. He's sharing stuff with me that he doesn't tell his parents, we flirt like no other, and always have a great time together. He stops by my house randomly just to see me, calls me to just talk and see how I am, and says I'm one of the most important people in his life. He tells me all of the time how grateful he is for having me in his life and that we have so much in common. Everyone who sees us together says he's into me as more than a friend. I need to know how to tell if he's interested in pursuing the possibility of being more than "just friends" and starting a relationship with me. I've obviously like him for quite sometime, and I'm way confused about all of this.

So what are dead give-aways that he's into me? How can I tell? And do you all think it's worth even possibly getting into a relationship with such a good friend, being that it might possibly ruin one of my closest friendships?

THANK YOU!

2006-12-12 16:57:53 · 4 answers · asked by Elsie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am kinda pissed right now, but I cant understand why a mother would have to force her child kicking and screaming to see the father when the child. Doesnt want to? My question is if the child doesnt want to go to the other parents house, does the child have to go? (Yes there is a court order,) (but) if the judge or who ever was told that the child freaks out everytime the child is dropped off and begs the parent not to leave them, would or can he make it so the child doesnt have to go?

2006-12-12 16:57:41 · 3 answers · asked by KCM 1 in Family