I have been on plenty of dates but at 22 yrs old have never kissed a guy since like 4th grade......because I am so scared of guys judging me since I am older and more than likely not great at kissing since I am not experienced.....How can I get past this so I can furthur my relationship with someone?! How can I get good at it and loosen up!?
2006-12-12 16:59:28 · 28 answers · asked by gcrowders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself and when the time comes everything will fall
into place and before you know it you will be a great kisser.
trust me when I tell you there is nothing to it. You are worrying yourself over nothing . Just let nature take its course.
2006-12-12 17:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by daizzddre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take each date one at a time. When you feel like he's ready to kiss you, or you're ready to kiss him, let him no that you've never really been kissed. Believe me, he will be ecstatic! Every guy wants a girl with no experience because 1: they don't have to get jealous over other guys you've been with, and 2: they can teach you how they like it. First kisses almost always suck, no matter how many people you've kissed before. If you want to tell him after, that's ok too. Why tell them? Because if you do suck (which you probably don't) then they'll understand and know that it will get better. Good luck!
2006-12-13 01:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, THIS is not a joke. If you have a doll practice kissing with that. You want to learn to open your mouth just alittle before touching lips.In no time you will be a great kisser. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-12-13 01:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not old at 22, OK. You sound like you have a low self esteem problem and worry too much about what other people think. If you have reached a stage where you are about to kiss someone, obviously you are with someone who cares about you. Don't worry, and if you are nervous, tell him, as he is probably nervous too, and will appreciate your honesty.
2006-12-13 01:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is are you a guy or a girl??? hey you forgot to state... these days who knows...
hey when the right person comes along the kiss will come naturally like breathing, drinking water, swimming or riding a bike. Do not try to force the kiss you will just ruin it for your self.
This is your life, just allow it to happen
2006-12-13 01:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by FLH67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you are not a great kisser? At 22 you sound like you think your life is almost over- it is just beginning! Mellow out- go with the flow & quit being so critical about yourself. Good luck.
2006-12-13 01:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and kiss the fella you like. You will not become a great kisser by not kissing in the first place...oh ya, remember to brush your teeth..or rinse your mouth
2006-12-13 01:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ho S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just loosen up and let it happen- everyone has their own way of kissing and none is better or worse, just different- just like we are as people.
stop worrying about doing it wrong and things will flow better for you.
2006-12-13 01:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk and make out with a random guy at a bar...that'll loosen you up and hopefully he'll be drunk too where he won't remember how terrible of a kisser you were.
2006-12-13 01:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, if a pretty women kisses me im all good. Dont worry bout it. Youll be just fine
2006-12-13 01:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by tom b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋