When my bf comes over to my house and before we make love, he always goes to the washroom and comes back out. I have noticed everytime he has gone to the washroom he always has a thicker penis and he seems to last long during sex. But when he doesn "go to the washroom" he doesnt seem to last that long and his penis seems alot softer I guess. I have asked him if he aplied anything on but he always says no-or changes the question. But i have also noticed sex is always alot beter when he does seem to last long. It always has some sorta smell to it too ...like some cream i guess. So my question is, is there any sort of formula, pills, or some sort that makes him last longer or somthing??? Since he's not telling me I decided I need to do a little reserch.
2006-12-12 17:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by MeaMea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are a few different things he could be applying, the product "goodhead" has a minty smell and it desensitizes the penis. It is made to desensitize your mouth during oral but it also works to make a man last longer and I have found that it sorta "bulks up" a mans penis, it has a tingly effect. There is also soemthign by The KArma Sutra line called pleasure balm, same minty type but better. There are condoms with the desensitizeing stuff IN them so he could either (A) be using those condoms that make him last longer, or (B) getting those to use whats IN them to make him self go longer. as far as it being bigger, he would use a penis pump. They help to increase size by a small bit not much but a little. Although, if your bf wont tell you whats goin on, Id say your sexual relationship is not as wonderful as you thought. Personally Id just walk i on him a few seconds after he goes in and suprise him lol. Hope this all helps.
2006-12-12 17:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I don't think your sexual relationship is on the right track. It brings questions like "What's wrong with this picture?".
I doubt if he is masturbating because that would have an opposite effect on lovemaking unless it's YOU that does it for him, or he let's you watch. And assuming that he is applying something or taking viagra only tells me that there's trouble in the relationship or with him personally. You say he changes the subject when approached about it.
It's always been my experience that if a normal healthy guy with no physical problems has trouble keeping it up then the problem is psychological. Most reasons for NOT lasting long during sex are attributed to psychological reasons. When a sexual relationship os new it's expected for a guy to last 10 seconds the first several times. But later "timing" is affected by the emotional part of your relationship together. This says that sex DOES need love. Otherwise it's a rocky road up ahead, sooner or later.
Bottom line. You should talk about these things with him. He should listen. If you prepare yourself with ideas, you can encourage him better to adapt to your feelings. I can personally say that is the way to better sex that lasts throughout a relationship.
2006-12-12 17:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your bf. If you two are in a serious relationship you might ask just what is important. If your sex life is really important, you should talk about it. If you want him to touch you or move you a certain way, you'd tell him. Ask him how you can best please him. Ask him if he's interested in learning how to best please you. Be willing to experiment. Consider getting some books, or searching the Internet for sexual positions and techniques. Sooner or later you will get around to discussing what he is doing in the bathroom. Tell him you're just as interested as he is in having a full, complete sex life. Ask for his help and offer yours. This is a partnership.
2006-12-12 17:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon he is masturbating in the washroom and is already spent. That would probably make his dick look thicker and last longer.
It could be Viagra, although I would not know.
2006-12-12 17:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by bumbass2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem let him use cream but let him wash after 15 min
and ask him to lick for 15 min then never you forget this play
and when his behaves changes stop him and yourself and keep cool after some moment go on men love spicy girls talk to him during sex
2006-12-12 20:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by mohammad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should ask him to marry you now, because now that the word is out, all the women who complain on here are going to be after him. Just enjoy his staying power and have fun.
2016-05-23 17:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has Been used to much maybe some outside activity before he sees you. Or you need to create more sex appeal.
2006-12-12 17:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-17 12:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not sure, there probably is, but another thing you can let your bf do is to make him delay ejaculation as long as possible.
2006-12-12 17:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
funny- he is cheating on you before sex with Mary and the five fingers. He obviously doesn't realize you could probably do something to him even better then what he does to himself and then enjoy round two together... you need to confront him with "ideas"...
2006-12-12 17:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by FLH67 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋