This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.Her boyfriend has a car plus license and I don't. She doesn't have her's either.
I'm geting my license soon. But a car will take a while.
2006-12-12 17:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow,I guess you must both like playing games because thats what your doing.Having friends communicate for you and "playing it cool" instead of honest communication.
Then at the end of your question its like whoever has a car wins.
I think a little maturity is in order here.
Guess this answer won't get me best answer,but at least its honest.
2006-12-12 17:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 17 most girls don't know what they want and have a different boyfriend each week if she flirts with you maybe she is trying to figure out if you might be the next one if you do get together i wouldn't plan on being that way long because at 17 she will move on soon also she likes the attention she gets by flirting all girls do.
2006-12-12 17:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. You seem to be handling her just fine. She likes the attention when you flirt. You may be in her unconscious files as the understudy. You can win the lead role if you spend time with someone else and stay cool with her. There is no greater aphrodisiac than competition. It's a win-win solution. Life goes on, and she'll miss out unless she dumps the tires.
2006-12-12 17:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lana Lang 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, kudos to Joe for being the only guy who mentioned the fact that she already has a boyfriend. Point to remember...if you meet someone and start dating/flirting while they're dating someone else, that does not bode well for the fate of your relationship with them. If they cheated to be with you, it's not unlikely that they will do it again.
2006-12-12 17:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with someone who still plays games like that? Get yourself a girl who's real, who's truthful, and who won't mess with your head. She's 17 acting like she's 14. Find someone new man, you don't need the drama that comes with a girl like that!
2006-12-12 17:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by kameka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a drama queen and if I were you I wouldn't waste my time. You deserve a girl that is straight up and honest, she sounds two-faced. Plus, she is not even single and if she was, she still doesn't seem interested.
You can do better hun! Good luck! :)
2006-12-12 17:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you gotta work on your lady skills... this girl probably isn't sure whether to like you or hate you. Plus, in my honest opinion, as long as she has a boyfriend, any noble man would leave her and him be for the time.
2006-12-12 17:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's lying, but it might be her friend. Confront them both in front of each other to see which one it is. Some girls like to stir up **** for their friends because they get jealous of attention.
2006-12-12 17:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont really get what the whole "car/license" thing had to do with the problem but whatever... i dont really get why you like her either, she sounds like a ***** who wants attention. trust me she does not like you, she likes playing games. i would tell everyone she has herpes that should take care of things
2006-12-12 17:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl goes with a guy because of his car she is being real silly. There are other girls.
2006-12-12 17:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋