"Just Friends" or "More Than Friends"?? How to tell?

Question

OK, my best guy friend and I have been getting even closer lately. He's sharing stuff with me that he doesn't tell his parents, we flirt like no other, and always have a great time together. He stops by my house randomly just to see me, calls me to just talk and see how I am, and says I'm one of the most important people in his life. He tells me all of the time how grateful he is for having me in his life and that we have so much in common. Everyone who sees us together says he's into me as more than a friend. I need to know how to tell if he's interested in pursuing the possibility of being more than "just friends" and starting a relationship with me. I've obviously like him for quite sometime, and I'm way confused about all of this.

So what are dead give-aways that he's into me? How can I tell? And do you all think it's worth even possibly getting into a relationship with such a good friend, being that it might possibly ruin one of my closest friendships?

THANK YOU!

Yes, I'm old enough for a relationship! I'm 23, he's 26.

Answer 1

it seems like he def likes you id say. and they say freinds make the best lovers. in any relationship your taking the chnace of not taslking or seeing orw/e again if it goes wrong. but you should def go for it

Answer 2

Relationships are supposed to be nurtured slowly and include all the feelings that you seem to have for each other. Instead of guessing, just have a discussion with him. A good friend would never ruin a relationship because you asked a question. Are you even old enough for a relationship? Seems as if there is no rush at such an early age. Maybe you better set some limits--find others to hang with---learn to say I have other stuff to do---then do it. He seems to be comfortable with your availability and maybe your vulnerablility at this point in time. Just ask and get it over with--he won't bite you because you asked. Make sure the time is right for a committment, otherwise you better make it clear that he needs to find others to hang with. Make him call before he shows up--set you boundries and stick to them---it is not the end of the world. Good luck

Answer 3

You are getting a bit anxious and that is going to show. We all know how a "friend" treats us and how we interact. That is what you are for now as far as you know. It is up to him to actually say something - and he will and you will respond - when he leans over and kisses you or hugs you or just looks into your eyes and says, "You know we are moving into boyfriend/girlfriend territory, don't you?" You will say, "Uh huh. What do you think?" He will say, "I've been thinking about it but it just feels kinda weird since we've known each other since preschool." You reply, "Yeah. But we're older and we know each other and besides, It's been on my mind too lately." He should say, "Okay, then let's see if we can get over the past and get on with something new and more mature. How about it, you wanna kiss like adults?" You will, of course, faint. He will grab you and yell for assistance. In that instance he will realize that he loves you, that he cannot live without you and his numerous kisses all over your face will tell you that. You will moan a sigh and look at him and smile and say, "You love me, Herbert. You said it. I heard you. Hold me, hold me tight. Let's go somewhere we can be alone." When you get up with his help don't trip over his foot and fall flat on your face. If you do, just lay there. The ambulance will arrive and get you out of the embarrassing situation and to the hospital where they will stitch up the gash across your nose and straighten your two front teeth before Herbert arrives to visit. If he doesn't visit then you know.

Answer 4

just fondle his penis and see how he responds