Im depressed all the tiem and i cry alot. and i sit home all day. im soo pathetic. and the only time im happy is when im iwth my bf,
What can i do to be happier?
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2006-12-12 17:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally feel where you're coming from. For me I just try to keep myself busy so I just forget about my depressed self. You should keep yourself busy with your boyfriend as much as possible. Get out of the house more often.
2006-12-12 17:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by thankkkyouus 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to find some other ways to make yourself happy. Finding a hobby or reading a book always helps. Im kinda goin through the same thing. If i dont keep myself busy I think about my ex and it drives me to tears. I started readin and got back into video games. Also school helps a lot too or takin a few classes. Be careful though, you might start pushing your boyfriend away from all the time together. Too much of a good thing is bad for you. Hope this helps.
2006-12-13 01:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Adam H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job-exercise-be single-sing a song-write a poem-call an old friend-volunteer-join a club-talk to a council er-go fishing-go to the mall-go hiking-Rollerblade-ride a bike-go to a movie-do not sit at home all day-play an instrument-get better grades-fly a kite-paint a picture-smell the roses-daydream-read a book-plant a tree-help a youngster-take a walk-be free :)
2006-12-13 01:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was depressed myself and am still young.I try to occupy myself but dont always succeed.At least im better off than before a little. I can never solve my prob totally.I hide and avoid people.What u can do is,get out with ur bf and his frens,that way u'l hv more company.Get interested in what they do.Myb u'l learn new things or hobby.
2006-12-13 01:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get out of the house more. Go out with friends, and have fun so you wont think so much about stuff. It will help meet and talk to new people. Talking to people will help pass time. Hope you feel better sweetie. you can always im me on yahoo and talk if you want.
2006-12-13 01:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one company is nice, but you need to occupy your mind with things of interest. find a sport or craft, read a book, retail therapy with a goo friend etc.... You guys need a lil space and let the heart grow fonder while you do some missing. He needs time with the boys too. keep you chin up, you know he loves you.
2006-12-13 01:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are definitely using your boyfriend as a crutch at this point, though maybe unwittingly; or you are very close to it. That does need to stop. Hopping around one one crutch is just going to break the crutch.
Go find others to help. Find a soup kitchen to help out in. Volunteer to run some old folks around for their errands. Volunteer to run some teens around for their errants. (haha)
2006-12-13 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need some self-esteem and learn to love yourself. You shouldn't need the company of another to be happy.
2006-12-13 01:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, at least you have someone. im 21, have a crappy apartment, crappy retail job, no car, adn icant seem to get a gf to save my life, or even get the handle of dating...so theres always somone worse off than you are.
2006-12-13 01:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get over with it and go out there and meet new friends. You can start by changing your avatar...
2006-12-13 01:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ho S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋