Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

a hat and a cute mug with some hot chocolate mixes in it? to the people that answered my first question 12 is around the age when the bf/gf things starts I would rather have her tell me about it than hide it and they dont go on dates he lives 400 miles away she sees him once a month with a bunch of her friends and calls him once a week. schools have dances starting in 5th grade maybe our education system starts the problem. how many of you had bf/gf in middle school I did and guess what I didn't pregnant until I was married and 23, also graduated college. maybe you should look at your life and before you judge someone. I just asked a simple question I didn't need the ignorant answers

2006-12-12 18:00:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm graduating from college soon, and need to decide what to do. I have an apartment lined up, but have not signed a lease. I am currently in Atlanta, and have no job lined up. I live back in the northeast, and would not be at all looking forward to moving home. In addition, I have a girlfriend and friends down here, but they are not my main motivation. I really want some independence, but have no clue what I should do!!! My parents really think I should move back home, but I really don't want to.

2006-12-12 17:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by ace0202851 1 in Family

My partner argued on the phone with his mother 2 days ago about our plane to get married.HIs parents offered us to pay for it with a limit of 5000$(we live in LA,,very expensive here).
We arranged for a nice wedding on a boat for 5000$ with nomore than 30 guests in order not to make them pay more than the amount they offered us.
But his parents invited extra 20 people friends of them so we can t have a wedding on the boat cause we re out of the 5000$.
So we asked them to cut from the list their friends that we dont even know in order to be able to have the wedding we like with the family and few of our friends on the boat.
They complained very badly about our request and started to say we are selfish.
THe mother (very fake old lady) started to blame me ....while she was talking on the phone with my fiance'she said that i m rude and i want them spend money and i washed brain him. Ssays i want their money...what can i do?they re even not rich..what can i do?she wont even talk to me

2006-12-12 17:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by manolaxox 1 in Weddings

Or is it hidden?

2006-12-12 17:57:59 · 6 answers · asked by Holly 5 in Singles & Dating

What kinds of things do you look for? List the most important ones first focusing on the qualities that make them different from the type of girl you just date.

2006-12-12 17:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to check the age of those answering the majority of the questions here, so if u can just answer with your age i could get a fair idea, cuz i'd like to ask questions and get responces from girls and guy my age....Thanx! xoxo

2006-12-12 17:57:28 · 30 answers · asked by lovelee 1 in Singles & Dating

she does not listen anything we say, she is so much into branded stuff, she just lazes around the house, sometimes we ask her to learn to maybe just make tea or simple food, she does not like it but do it anyway but we know shes not happy with it. She just like act like she is great that she came to visit and shes from Australia. None of us can stand her, I would really like to talk to her and make her understand the reality of life, bu tI dont know how and when to start. Ahy suggestions. I got only 2 months to be with her. I really want to help her by showing what life is all about.

2006-12-12 17:57:05 · 4 answers · asked by parmin d 1 in Family

this is the story guys iam getting a divorce. i have a new guy in my life he know all about the divorce. but should we move to the next step more then just friend we go out and all.should we what till the divorce is fineal

2006-12-12 17:56:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

friend wants out of marriage. wife makes no time for him anymore. wants to be more than just parents and spouses. she has not been interested in sex for years, he is faithful but misses the intimacy.he is not looking for an easy out, but wants answers.

2006-12-12 17:55:35 · 18 answers · asked by atlas shrugged and so do i 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 17:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband works nights sometimes and l am honestly afraid of the dark. I also find it very difficult to sleep on my own. Any suggestions PLEASE !!!

2006-12-12 17:53:36 · 25 answers · asked by kazzadanni 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I ask this guy at work how the xxxx in the world he didn't answer any of my calls tonight? (think 4 times plus messages)

We usually talk every night-either he calls me or I calls him. He is usually really good at returning my calls, but not tonight. Should I ask him what's up when seeing him tomorrow? or should I just ignore the whole thing?

2006-12-12 17:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My little sister especially likes it when i take her shopping. Anybody do other stuff?

2006-12-12 17:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by brown eyed girl 1 in Family

I live out west and I have been communicating via emails and through myspace with a guy who lives on the
east coast. We both have mutual friends here in the west, but we have never met personally.
Anyway, we have been flirty in our messages to one another. Not sexual, just flirty.

Then the other day I ran into one of our mutual acquaintances and she told me he was in a relationship (had a girlfriend).
Well, he just sent me another message saying he was coming out west to my city in February, and wanted to know what the weather was like here in February.
Now, I know he could easily ask one of his other friends who live out here what the weather is like.

Here’s the question!
Do you think he was trying to see what I would say when I found out he was coming to my city??
Was he trying to line up a "hook up" while away from his girlfriend?
Or.....is he just curious about the weather?

Opinions, please.

2006-12-12 17:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

well I need more freinds and I don't know how to start a conversation with them, or keep my mouth moving for a long time so they can think I'm a fun person to hang with.
I don't want people saying '' Oh my gosh i don't want to hang out with her she's soooooo boring''.
My parents won't let my freinds call my house because they think their bad.
So I can only talk to my freinds when they're gone.
So what can i change about myself to make new freinds, i MEAN COOL FREINDS?

2006-12-12 17:52:15 · 14 answers · asked by *~LaDy SmOoK~* 1 in Friends

i dont want professional help or ne thing, but now my friends and teacher r really worried....wut sud i do? tell them the whole truth? or try to work it out on my own....?

2006-12-12 17:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To be honest, if you have watched football, some of them you cannot tell them from the black players. Yeah some may have the wavy hair when they take the helmets off but they have the facial features and color and body physique of the black players.
Don't believe me, look at Troy Polamalu of the Steelers or Deuce Latui of the Cardinals. They look like mixed black guys.
I was watching a clip on the USC football team from last year and there were 2 samoan players on the offensive line. They fit right in with the black players. The way they were acting and the swagger, especially when one of them let his beard grow out, some black guys I know didn't have a beard that rough.
I'm just pointing this out out because I keep mistaking them for black guys. Not a problem though.

2006-12-12 17:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by coronji 2 in Family

some natives donot get reality;&then again kno everything about the culture

2006-12-12 17:50:53 · 2 answers · asked by thik2luv 1 in Singles & Dating

help him pick out a present for his sisters and mother, what does that mean? Is that a friend thing? Or an "I like you" thing? OR does he really need the help? lol

It's a guy from work i'm into and I've never hung out with him, but we talk at work and on myspace. I've known him a few weeks which is why I thought this strange.

2006-12-12 17:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by brianlr2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two teenagers at home and one phone line. Does anyone have some bright ideas on how they can effectively share the phone? We're not going to add another line--they just have to learn to play nicely.

I realize this sounds kind of quaint with all the technology out there.
Before you suggest cell phones--one of the kids does have their own cell. However, our rule is that the phone is primarily for us to communicate with them. When they're home, the phone is off and on the kitchen counter. (This way we have a better handle on who they're talking to, and there's no texting at 1 a.m. under the covers.)

Your help is greatly appreciated!

2006-12-12 17:48:04 · 24 answers · asked by Ferrisita 2 in Family

Is he just getting comfortable around me, or is it maybe that he's interested in me. He's 19, and I'm 17.

My best friend and I went to this concert, and for like the past week he has kept saying "Hey, Kate, are you gonna go to another concert? hahah" and then he pretends to play the guitar.

I dont really know why its so funny, but whatever

then also I was talking about how my dad likes Sci-fi and he starts asking me if I'm a gremlin or something like that, and I said: I dont know what that is.

And he also always trys and shows off his new stuff to me like DVD's computers bla bla

2006-12-12 17:46:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 17:45:51 · 7 answers · asked by flower 2 in Friends

they didn't have children together but when they got divorced their legal papers said dissolution of marriage,(03D) dissolution minor children and legal separation children. so, does this mean they had children from a previous marriage? or did they have children from that marriage even though a summons stated it was issued for the dissolution of marriage but children no we are talking two different dates here.......one in July and one in Nov a few years back. these papers were also sent to family court services filed under confidentially statement document (03).
This person isn't availble to ask him straight forward.....although I did ask before and he said he never had any children. But, when I was researching some things I found this information out and his friends are quite surprised also. so if anyone has any legal background information I would certainly like clarification of this... if you have an email I can scan the paperwork and maybe you can see it better. I thank you :~)

2006-12-12 17:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by SillyOle'Bird 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it's not like ive just realised this today. i really thought hard about it for like 3 months now, and i found out that i am really in love with her. but both of us are straight. i sure am straight. i love guys, i love going out with them, having fun, making out, etc. i love my friend, and im not thinking of something sexual. i just care for her so deeply. and im finding this really weird. im also scared of telling this to her because the last thing i want is for her to think im a freak and leave me. i just feel nice and special when im with her. ive had boyfriends before, so i think i know this is something real. what do i do know?

2006-12-12 17:45:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can you give me some ideas of sites, and what they are like? How I would go about registering for them?

I really need to brush up my skills in talking to people, because I get all tongue tied and generally clam up before I can make a fool of myself.

2006-12-12 17:44:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anastasia 5 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine is married, he has a 15 week old baby and has just told me he hasnt had sex for 9 months, and not very often before baby was conceived, i didnt want to ask any more questions as it may be a sore subject, you reckon its marriage probs?

2006-12-12 17:43:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that would care if I had a girlfriend while we dated and would it be a turn on to see us together.. Is there any guy out there that would beable to handle that..

2006-12-12 17:43:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other night I went to a Christmas party with a co-worker of mine whom I'm totally crushing on. The whole night this other girl was there trying to hook up with him and he totally blew her off all night so one of the managers asked him if he was here with anyone and he said yes that he was with me and she then said oh so you're single then and he was like no not really. now this guy and i aren't going out yet all night people kept calling us bf and gf and he never said anything at all about it not being true. this girl even asked him to dance and he said no he was taking a break and then we went to dance. we danced together all night and he didn't take his eyes off of me. he also told me that i looked amazing and very sexy. anyways does this sound like he's interested in dating me in the future and if so what should i do about getting this to happen?

2006-12-12 17:40:55 · 10 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lived with my high school "friend" for the past two years, but she is constantly lying about everything! Just recently she told everyone we work with that she found 6 hours of lesbian porn on my computer and she knew all along I was a lesbian, and which is why I dont like her boyfriend (I guess because I'm jealous?)..which is NOT true. She also told them she does all my school work and leaves her no time to do her own and that is why she is doing bad this semester. Which is also NOT true! She constantly tells me my best friend is a bad friend and that I am dumb for still wanting to be her friend, ect, ect. She has betrayed all of her other friends and I'm pretty much all she has left. I want to move out but our lease isn't up for another 7 months. If she makes my life living hell being my friend, I can't imagine what she would do if I said I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. Sticky situation! I NEED HELP!!

2006-12-12 17:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by kd846649 1 in Friends