well I need more freinds and I don't know how to start a conversation with them, or keep my mouth moving for a long time so they can think I'm a fun person to hang with.
I don't want people saying '' Oh my gosh i don't want to hang out with her she's soooooo boring''.
My parents won't let my freinds call my house because they think their bad.
So I can only talk to my freinds when they're gone.
So what can i change about myself to make new freinds, i MEAN COOL FREINDS?
2006-12-12 17:52:15 · 14 answers · asked by *~LaDy SmOoK~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is really quite an easy task. STOP trying. Take a closer look at the friends you do have and ask yourself a couple very hard question. Does this friend love me as a friend ?. Would this person go way out of their way to help me if needed ?. Is this a true and honest careing friend. Does this person respect me, my other friends and more importantly, my family. If the answer is yes, then you have a real friend. One your parents would let into their lives and allow into their home. Now that you weeded out the aquaintances from your true friends start shareing experiences together with the real friends and build bonds that will last a life time. NEW FRIENDS will come to you naturally now and take you for what you are, not what you want them to think you are. Be real, be true, be honest and be a real friend.
2006-12-12 18:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by SeaJayDboss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cool friends don't mean a thing. they could be cool or seem it and be the first ones to stab you in teh back with crap. So go for the honest good people cool or not. Find things in common with them and start from there. A little conversation can spark new things.
2006-12-13 01:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out at a cool spot. Make sure they like the same things you do. Try internet find some cool hangouts in the town you live in.
2006-12-13 01:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by karli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some ppl with common interests and start up a conversation about what u like to talk about. lets say u are like some sort of musician. talk about the music u play etc. then ever time u see them talk about something different. then start hanging out etc. itl go by itself from ther
2006-12-13 01:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by guitarcrazy408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your idea of "cool" friends? Are you "cool"? How about making friends with most that you meet?
'We are all the same on this planet.. and if you think that you will score in some way with certain people.. you will look back and see that you didn't.
2006-12-13 01:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant pick the people who like you and maybe the "cool" people wont like you.
Your best bet is to not ask this question to strangers all over the world and to go out and hang out with people since you cant call them.
2006-12-13 01:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by supermonkey081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Just be yourself. Never put on a front to make friends. If they don't like what they see,let them move on. You can aways find NICE friends.
Clowmy
2006-12-13 01:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The coolest friends are made at the North and South Poles!
2006-12-13 01:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by RZA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, are u a shy person? Be laid bac and b yourself! Dont make it seem like your despret. Try to talk to new people from your classes or your lunch period. But dont b phoney, b real if they dont like u, forget them. Make sure that their jus not cool but real too!
2006-12-13 01:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk over start a conversation and just be yourself. If they don't like them, then so be it and just go on finding other new friends.
2006-12-13 01:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋