Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

i'm 13 years old and i hav a crush on someone that is really ugly and i dont like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know thats really confusing but i like him and i dont!
he looks like a frigen shaggy dog!!!!!

how do i stop likeing him?

2006-12-12 19:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by **Yi Maaca** 3 in Singles & Dating

i was going out with this girl and she was lyk well she started to call me husband and stuff for fun then today on the fone she was like i think i can last with u for over a month and then 1 hour later she dumped me through an email saying that she didnt really lyk me she jus used me and stuff but the thing is,we were to meet up twice and the first time she didnt turn up and 2nd time i went to the place where we were guna meet but she sent me a txt saying she couldnt come and i lyk wanted to go on a date with her and lyk make it a damn good one and i needed money for it so i was saving up and to save up i needed to lyk starve lunch and keep that money to make her happy..now i feel really bad and angry what should i do?:(

2006-12-12 19:19:18 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew Y 1 in Friends

he promised to hang out with me after class and i told him i would text message him when i got out. which i did... three hours later i get a response from him... and of coutse, i'm upset because he stood me up and didn't even respond to my text. Call me stupid for referring to the site "myspace".. but then I see that a girl left a comment telling him that he's awesome. (well, exact words are "why are you so awesome?") but still i believe that calling no one would call anyone awesome unless they've done something "awesome" for the person. The fact is that this guy is not even my 'boyfriend'... but we've been dating for a year and some months and he states that we practically are bf&gf. so my question is: one- do you think i have a right to upset? two-my opinon on calling someone 'awesome', am i wrong or what? three- because he stood me up, should that affect trust... ?

2006-12-12 19:18:31 · 12 answers · asked by kristinej0yce 2 in Singles & Dating

So my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago because of emotional, physical and geographical distance... all of which have now been solved... but at first and I spent some time trying to get him back...didnt work. But recently, we've been able to make some progress and he agreed to go out to dinner with me. What is your advice for making the best of this opportunity. I really still love him guys!! Please help :)

2006-12-12 19:17:40 · 3 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

when im with my best friend

like when we walk somewhere
he holds me from my wrist
but he squeezes it like alot and it hurts me
and i tell him not to do that
but he keeps doing it
and i feel that he thinks im like hes property

why doe he do this??

2006-12-12 19:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

It s a long time that my husband blames his parents to be stingy for the way they acted when he was at school.After our wedding he realized his parents were even more stingy with us. Yesterday he called his mother on the phone and argued with her.He told her she s stingy.The mother said"your wife is rude and i think she brain wash us about the fact we re stingy cause she wants our money".I got a shock and i called her after this conversation to ask her to meet her in person the same night at her house...her husband answered for her telling me she s not in a mood to talk to me but she wants talk alone with her son(my husband)what s going on in her sick mind?What can i do?Ignore her and esclude her from my life?

2006-12-12 19:16:37 · 9 answers · asked by manolaxox 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is still studying, and we were far from each other. he stays in a male dorm. we only got to see each other every weekend and one time, his friend told me that he is not sleeping in there dorm.and when i confronted him, he told me that its not true...so, who would i believe?

2006-12-12 19:15:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm probably just thinking it means something when it doesn't, but what i want to know is whether guys include a girl's name in his greeting to her if he likes her... because there's this guy i like, and whenever we pass each other, i would say hey and then he would either smile back at me or smile and say hey, but this time he said hey to me first and used my name... and when he said my name he said it softly, what's that mean?

today when he said hey to me, he didn't use my name, but he asked how i was doing, although it's not the first time that he asked how i was doing... i don't know whether he likes me or anything and i'm too afraid to do anything... what should i do? the thing is is that school will be over in 2 days for christmas break, and then i won't see him for 3 weeks.

2006-12-12 19:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

He was talking to his best guy friend and he told him that he couldn't wait to "eat the ookie-cookie" tomorrow night. When I asked him what it meant he told me it was nothing. I feel wrong about it though. What does this mean and should I be worried? ;-)

2006-12-12 19:13:59 · 12 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is a good idea? I put an ad in the newspaper to meet a girl should I take her to Taco Bell

2006-12-12 19:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of two and half years broke up with me about two months ago? I wanted to work things out, but she says she just doesn't feel that way about me anymore. I have decided not to contact her for a couple of months, and then try again. I love this girl to death, and she is all I have thought about everyday since we broke up. I know she is seeing another guy, but I don't know if is serious, and I want to call and talk to her, but i fear that it will only make things worse. So I have her email password (she gave it to me once years ago, and I know she has forgot all about it), do I check the email. I know this is an invasion of privacy, but having that access and not useing it is driving me crazy!!!

2006-12-12 19:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by John Doe 1900 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it possible that two people divorce and it is stated on the divorce papers that the father cant or would neither see or talk with his chilren (which by the way goes with the mother)?

2006-12-12 19:11:10 · 4 answers · asked by i cant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys through e-mail , they never respond back to me.

I know I am A hot god damn woman, with a body to die for.
So why won't they respond back to me.?

2006-12-12 19:09:45 · 8 answers · asked by betsy s 1 in Singles & Dating

This relationship between my friend and his girl has been off and on for 4 years. The time that they think they had concieved the baby was a one night stand type of deal. She doesn't allow him to be himself or do anything that he wants with out her permission (ex. watching rated R movies because of the chance of there being nudity in it). She is rediculously jealous of my girlfriend, girls he works with and girls in general. He allows her to make himself feel guilty over all this crap. Her family sees that she manipulates him as well as everyone else (including counselors). If there is any advice that i can give to him, please let me know. He has such low self esteem that he doesnt' know what to do. He doesnt see himself with her in the future, but i'm wondering if there is a way around it now.......

2006-12-12 19:09:30 · 3 answers · asked by hathead84 1 in Friends

I've known this girl for at least 2 months now and we talk and we've been out to parties and gatherings. She never calls me by name, but instead calls me my nickname because she thinks its cute. I liked someone before but found they didnt respond to me after a while, and this friend caught me with her a fortnight ago. She said she was upset that i was 'too busy socialising' to notice her but after that she said that i'm forgiven and that i owe her lunch to make up. I agreed to invite her to lunch this week. We havent seen each other since the party but i send her flirty messages on msn and she laughs at them, and yesterday, i had a long day of work but we talked through sms until 3 in the morning. I'm beginning to think about her more now. Do you think she likes me?

2006-12-12 19:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

says you are hear in the marriage only because of security? what the does this mean exactly, he says its hard to explain?

2006-12-12 19:06:12 · 16 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 19:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 19:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my ex and now I realized that I made a hugh mistake, and she is def. the one for me...but should I go back with her or is it to much for her to take back?

2006-12-12 19:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 19:02:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

INFIDELITY OR ALCOHOLISN???

2006-12-12 19:02:46 · 14 answers · asked by Bella 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 19:02:22 · 13 answers · asked by VISAL . R R 1 in Singles & Dating

My aunts and uncles have done something terrible to me and my immediate family (i.e, my mother and brother). Is it ok for me to severe ties with my aunts and uncles for the rest of my life?

2006-12-12 19:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you fell for another man but have no intentions of acting on those feelings.I love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him but don't know how to deal with the guy I've fallen for now.Do I tell my bf I have feelings for the other guy since he's a friend of my boyfriend's?

2006-12-12 19:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know if i should tell her im uncomfortable with how she is. she has way more guy friends than girl friends and in lunch only hangs out with guys.she has cheated on guys before and once did things with a guy who she knew he had a gf.because of all this,i feel i cant trust her completely.this was all before she met me. i really love her but im uncomfortable when she touches other guys. im also uncomfortable when she leaves me to talk with other guys and when she does things with them that we dont do together.i cannot walk or take her home because she doesnt want her parents to see us together but this one guy who she sometimes talks to privately and plays around with lives near her and has lately been walking home with her. should i tell her im uncomfortable with this and that i dont trust her completely? i dont wanna hurt her,but i dont know what to do or say.

2006-12-12 19:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by fuzzie-e 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i know if he's really into me?

2006-12-12 18:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by djat20 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is not at all environmentally conscious. He'll leave lights on when he leaves a room, lets the water run for upto 30mins before he'll get in the shower (to warm up the bathroom), can't stand to be ever so slightly cold so the thermostat is usually up pretty high.

It drives me nuts. I try do as much as I can...turn the lights off behind him, lower the thermostat a degree but it gets tiring and it's expensive! How do I get him to be a little more respectful of the environment w/out sounding like a nag??

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-12 18:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by silv2078 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and i still canot get past the fact that he has been married befor.

2006-12-12 18:58:59 · 8 answers · asked by pepper h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was with my bf for two years and things were great. then suddenly he broke it off cause his parents didnt like me (im quiet and they mistook it as rude!). He said to me when we had a chat after the break up 'A big part of me doesnt want to let you go and it feels wrong but its how it has to be' and he cried during this chat. Now hes sayin that he still cares a lot about me and is real worried about me cause im pretty messed up right now but told me yest that part of him wants to be alone...and it wasnt very convincing....do you think its just cause of his parents like they gave him an ultimatum or is it something else?

2006-12-12 18:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 18:58:02 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating