I cheated on my ex and now I realized that I made a hugh mistake, and she is def. the one for me...but should I go back with her or is it to much for her to take back?
2006-12-12 19:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you truly love her and know that you will not cheat on her again, it is worth a try. it is up to her if she can handle taking you back. when you do go back, you really have to give her reason to believe that you've realized your mistake and you're willing to do what it takes to make things right. and once they are right, KEEP THEM RIGHT!! good luck!!
2006-12-12 19:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by bored@work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What gives you the right to go back? You have done something wrong and do you really think she would ever trust you again? She's already hurt dont make it harder or worse than it already is. She's probably vulnerable right now and would take you back in a minute but for her sake and yours in the long run, let her go. If you honestly love her you then you should know she deserves someone better. She probably would never love you the same or look at you the same way.
2006-12-13 03:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be too much for anyone to handle. Since you admit to cheating then you know already that the trust had been breached. And once you do something like that in a relationship it's hard for people to get over. She'll probably feel like she can never trust you again and with good reason. If she would be willing to then you should sit down and have a heart to heart and see if it is something you can work out.
2006-12-13 03:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by golden_moon_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weather it's too much for her to take u back is something that SHE should decide. we all mess up at one point, the only difference that makes us better people is wether we're ready to admit we're wrong, apologize, and sincerely show an effort to compensate..which are all things u seem to be willing to do. Let her know exactly how u feel..make sure u admit ur guilty & sorry ..approach her with declaring that ur mission will be to win back her trust and luv watever that takes...if she still loves u, she'll probably accept that..good luck :)
2006-12-13 03:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah u should go back with her becuase now she knows u learn your lesson and because i cheat on my b/f two time and i love him a lot and he forgive me because he love me and just go back and if she love then she will take u back because everyone makes mistake.
2006-12-13 03:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "episode" will always be a stumbling block in your relationship...
Just chalk it up to something learned, and move on.
2006-12-13 03:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jay J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much...she wouldn't trust you and can you take that?
2006-12-13 03:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋