My girlfriend of two and half years broke up with me about two months ago? I wanted to work things out, but she says she just doesn't feel that way about me anymore. I have decided not to contact her for a couple of months, and then try again. I love this girl to death, and she is all I have thought about everyday since we broke up. I know she is seeing another guy, but I don't know if is serious, and I want to call and talk to her, but i fear that it will only make things worse. So I have her email password (she gave it to me once years ago, and I know she has forgot all about it), do I check the email. I know this is an invasion of privacy, but having that access and not useing it is driving me crazy!!!
2006-12-12 19:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by John Doe 1900 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i sympathise with what you are going thru but i feel the best you can do is put it all out of your mind, forget the password and email and get on with ur life. if she really wanted to be with you, thats exactly where she'd be.
2006-12-12 19:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are prepared to wait for her and want to keep her, allow her her privacy. Dont tread where angels would fear to tread. Act responsibly and you know what if she is dating someone else why dont you try out some new waters. It will also help you to overcome feelings of death if you cant have her. If you have problems go for counaselling. This is wise or you just load another woman with stuff thats not her problem in the first place.
Both of you still sound a little green to me and I think you must start becoming more accountable and be what you are meant to be. Please dont get upset with this, because I mean well. I want you to consider reading a book called WILD AT HEART written by John Eldredge. It is excellent and will help you as a man to see things differently. It will also help you find your ppath in life. There is a time for everything under the sun and maybe now is not the time for her. Shes made her choicenow make a choice to move on. If after a few years you two meet up again, things will be better, because you got ready for the relationship[ you wnat to have.
Good luck and I wish you the very best!
2006-12-12 19:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how do you know it is the same password? She might of acted like she has forgotten but hasn't and changed it. I have my husbands password he didn't give it to me but I guessed it and he doesn't even know. I keep it locked in my head for someday when I think he is lying to me I will then use it. I would try using it just to see if it is the right one first. You might be driving your self crazy for nothing. Then I would just leave it alone. Call her if you want to see if there could be another chance in your future for you to. I wouldn't just use it to ease drop because if she finds out there might not be any chances left for you because of betrayal swallow your pride and make the call. If she talks to you-you will know if there any sparks left just by how she reacts to your call.
2006-12-16 06:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Chynna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be VERY CAREful...because if you are learning things about her by reading it, and if you ever get back together, you may let something "slip" that you could only know if you'd read the private pages...then one lie is told to cover another, and then you are in deep goo, up to your knees....so resist the temptation.
WE usually think alot about the EXes in our lives, primarily, because we have UNresolved feelings and questions and concerns with them. MOST of the time, it is best to grow up, face up, and move on down the yellow brick road!
No be sneaky, no be a peek-y!
Good luck and be the honorable guy I think you are!
2006-12-12 19:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with your gf 2&half years ago . So its your past now . I know you are probably really in pain .But a wise thing to do is just forget about her like she has .She probably has moved on .I know its difficult to forget someone whom you were probably wanting to spend your rest of your life,But you have to forget her & move on .Maybe there is someone much better waiting for you .As for your ex's email password ,its best if you forget about it as it might infuriate her even more .So its better if you completly forget about it as you have said its an invasion on privacy. Try to spend more time with your friends & family .All the best .
2006-12-12 19:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nadu 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave her alone! She has moved on and you need to do the same. Look at her emails only if you want to feel worse than you do now.
2006-12-12 19:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read her emails you are giving her a number one reason not to trust you and she will never take you back without trust.
2006-12-12 19:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wenz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you say stalker?
get a life and stop pestering someone elses
2006-12-12 19:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use it but you can NEVER fess up to using it-whats the harm BUT if you plan to tell her you used it skip it because she will think you are slime
2006-12-12 19:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋