i dont know if i should tell her im uncomfortable with how she is. she has way more guy friends than girl friends and in lunch only hangs out with guys.she has cheated on guys before and once did things with a guy who she knew he had a gf.because of all this,i feel i cant trust her completely.this was all before she met me. i really love her but im uncomfortable when she touches other guys. im also uncomfortable when she leaves me to talk with other guys and when she does things with them that we dont do together.i cannot walk or take her home because she doesnt want her parents to see us together but this one guy who she sometimes talks to privately and plays around with lives near her and has lately been walking home with her. should i tell her im uncomfortable with this and that i dont trust her completely? i dont wanna hurt her,but i dont know what to do or say.
2006-12-12 19:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by fuzzie-e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think a reason she has cheated before is that in her childhood she was abused by her parents,so she has let herself to try to forget about problems
2006-12-12 19:14:34 · update #1
Yes tell her your issues with her, but don't be too shocked if she leaves you.
2006-12-12 19:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 05:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you'd be better off finding someone else to spend the majority of your time with. if you tell your friend that you don't feel that you can trust her to the fullest, it's just going to hurt her. the best thing to do is to start spending a little more time with other friends, and a little less time with her, and increase it until you're spending very little time with her, and a lot more time with other friends. your friend sounds like the kind of girl who could get you into trouble, and you don't want that.
Best Wishes With Everything
2006-12-12 19:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only read the first few lines of your question and you have, in that short writing, convinced me. You have answered your own question...this girl is a loser. There are lots of fish in the sea (ho hum) and you will stumble upon one that is in sync with your personal value system. Never, ever, seddel fur!
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2006-12-12 19:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by masson589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say brother, don't let lust cloud your judgment on any level, follow your heart, cause it will never steer you wrong, if it were me I'd b as open and honest as possible because your feelings are on the line as well, be strong and let her know what's going on.
2006-12-12 19:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by ish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot trust her, dump her. Believe me. It's better that you cut off the relationship before she breaks your heart, and she WILL break your heart.
2006-12-12 19:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER, WHY SHOULD SHE BE SEEN WITH OTHERS AND NOT YOU? I THINK THE GIRL IS JUST PLAYING YOU AROUND
2006-12-12 21:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by zayn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋