i'm 13 years old and i hav a crush on someone that is really ugly and i dont like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i know thats really confusing but i like him and i dont!
he looks like a frigen shaggy dog!!!!!
how do i stop likeing him?
2006-12-12 19:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by **Yi Maaca** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must like his personality..... don't judge someone for their looks.
If this bothers you, quit looking at him or talking to him.
2006-12-12 19:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eight years from now, you'll solve these problems with alcohol and an awkward moment the following morning. For now though, you should be honest with yourself about why you're attracted to this boy. Obviously he has some qualities that interest you, and if he's not as physically attractive as you'd like, maybe that's for the best. A less-than-gorgeous guy will bring less competition from other girls, and you might find that it's easier to focus on the things that you genuinely like about him rather than just his looks, which will always get old eventually.
However good looking a guy is, you will always eventually meet someone who looks better. I'd check into things with this guy; maybe he's got a lot to offer that you won't easily find elsewhere. You should be able to tell after one or two dates if he's someone worth hanging onto.
2006-12-13 03:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dave B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you want to stop liking him because he's ugly? Well, now, that's not very nice, is it? I mean, if you're only going to like cute and goodlooking guys, well, you're in for a disappointment. Most cute and goodlooking guys are arrogant. And unless you're very very very pretty, they're not going to go out with you. Hey, this guy might be nice. Give him a chance. You're only 13. You never know, when you turn 20 or older, he's going to look like Jude Law or Orlando Bloom. Maybe not, but he may just look cute. Look, cut the guy some slack. When you grow older, you're going to realize things. Just chill for now, okay?
2006-12-13 03:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lilah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to stop likeing him. and its ok too, if you dont physically like him. your in denial that is why you look at him in a negative way by lookingat his defect, just accept your feeling and think of what makes you like him. i dont know if it makes sence but this is normal at your age. when you realize all of this he wont seem ugly to you anymore..
2006-12-13 03:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by zoilaciri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh, go out with hm, im sure you'll be utterly repelled within the first 5 mins, and if not, good for you, you have an ugly boyfriend ; )
2006-12-13 03:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
if u say hes really ugly
and that u dont wanna like him
just think of everything bad he has
that will make u forget him
2006-12-13 03:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge a book bla bla u know that. He may look like '****' but he maybe a nice person.
2006-12-13 03:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by theguy932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him and dont think about him
2006-12-13 03:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont c him or just dont think of him
2006-12-13 03:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Edward cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋