my husband is still studying, and we were far from each other. he stays in a male dorm. we only got to see each other every weekend and one time, his friend told me that he is not sleeping in there dorm.and when i confronted him, he told me that its not true...so, who would i believe?
2006-12-12 19:15:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you cant decide who to trust why are you even married?
2006-12-12 19:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk.Too little information. although, are you able to attempt watching it from distinctive angles: Why did your chum do such loopy issues for you to hate her? as she is shifting away quickly? Why did she get offended with you plenty in simple terms given which you stop going to the golf equipment along with her? Does she often one among those a drama queen? Why do you think of you're greater effective than her? (Sorry, yet i believe that.) Being depressing does not make her a liar. A flirt does not would desire to comprehend woman nicely to flirt. What if she advised the fact? What if she thinks your husband cheated and could cheat back and tried to guard you? something are like your husband and different posters stated: She would desire to be depressing, lonely, desperate that she is loosing you as a chum so she lied approximately your husband. Who do you believe: your husband, your chum, your self or us????
2016-10-05 06:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly people who go out of their way to cause trouble between a husband and wife make me wonder about their motives and their own integrity. Is this person really a friend or is she trying to break you up so she can have your man?
Be careful to whom you lend out your ears. Remember the devil comes to rob, kill and to destroy and he is capable of using even friends to take away your happiness from you.
Besiudes what if he and a mate went out camping or invited him to spend a weekend with his family. It doesnt mean he is involved with anyone.
Sweet girl, dont listen to things like this and walk lightly around people who gossip[. People who operate in the negative will merely pull you down. If she cannot tell you to your face and in front of your husband, I would query her integrity and her motive for telling you!
You have to learn to trust your man and to respect him too. Dont listen to these things.. I have a feeling its not true.
2006-12-12 19:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friend male or female? MOST males have ulterior motives and like to stir up stuff. I would say if you do not know who to trust then follow him, then you would know.
Though I agree with the person who asked if you do not know who to trust then why are you married, trust should be part of the main foundation of marriage.
2006-12-12 20:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She never stated how old he was.
But if the friend has nothing to lose by telling you this maybe he is the most trustworthy. Ask your husband straight up why his roomate would be lying -- specifically if they just had some kind of disagreement or fight. If he is slow answering you know that he's lying.
2006-12-12 19:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Hugo V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would his friend lie to you about it?Where did his friend say your husband was sleeping?If he was not sleeping in the dorm.I would have confronted my husband in front of his friend ask him.Where have you been sleeping at honey?Because so and so says you haven't been sleeping here in the dorm.I do not see.Why his friend would lie to you about it?I can see.Why your husband would lie to you about it say it is not true?He would be a fool if it is true to tell you.Unless he wanted a divorce.
2006-12-12 19:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out more about it before going and making a decision. A marriage is not something to throw away because of a rumor.
2006-12-12 19:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first run over the reasons this roommate might be a liar. When you are through with that...believe him or don't and make a surprise 3 a.m. checkitout visit. You will then have your answer.
2006-12-12 19:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should believe your husband. this statement doesn't mean my answer correct any more than if i said don't believe him. all you can really do is ask yourself if you trust him. only you know if you do or you don't. if you don't trust him, believe his friend. if you trust him, believe him. it's only 1/2 change that you'll be wrong either way.....so i guess my answer is that if you really want to know for sure, there are ways to find out for sure, on your own.
2006-12-12 19:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how has more to lose, your husband or your friend. I would lean towards your friend. This does not mean that you can not work this out with your husband. He needs YOU there. remember we men are pigs. its hard when your wife is not there all the time.
2006-12-14 02:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by fluf3012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a hard one. Is the friend interested in you or just has respect for you or is his trying to do the work of your b/f in breaking up with you? Go with your gut.
2006-12-12 19:19:52 · answer #11 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋