Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

My husband parents lives in their own big home,they ve 4 cars and a boat and they gave to my husband a old pick up truck 1998 ford and they want him to pay for it 6000$.He gave them 2000 $ in cash,the rest it will be paid monthly for a sum of money of 186.20 .
My husband noticed that they cash the check the same day they get it. dont u think r they stingy? we just got married and we ve so many bills to pay...they should be more generous.dont u think so?

2006-12-12 18:57:54 · 8 answers · asked by manolaxox 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just wondering why guys need sex so badly. I've heard it often that, it is biologically wired into males that they need sex and lots of it. But why? It is cuz they have to release lots of sperm? But some girls are really horny too so why is it that guys need sex soooo badly???
I've dated guys and once they find out that I wanna save sex for marriage they end it. People tell me "Well guys have their needs and although they may like and respect you, they put sex as their #1 priority and that's why they end it & go for another girl who is willing to put out"
So other than the fact that sex is pleasurable, why do men "have to have" sex so badly???

2006-12-12 18:56:21 · 18 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 18:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My date the other night told me I looked brilliant! Yet, he made fun of me because I chose the wrong fork to eat my salad with. Well there went his chance!

2006-12-12 18:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

So many times I have dumped a guy, or moved or something only to get a pleading phone call from them later saying how I was the love of thier life and they will do anything to get me back. But yet things were never like this during the relationship. How come guys never realize what they have when it's right in front of them? Is it possible to make them realize while you actually are dating them?

2006-12-12 18:50:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a question for everyone....I have a friend who 31 years old and it ever being this hard to meet a decent guy in her area. what does a person have to do to meet someone?

2006-12-12 18:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a divorcee and i am planning to get married to a good friend of mine who is not married i have been told that one should not marry immediately after married you need to take 3 monnths after ur divorce to get married is it true, my problem is his marriage is being fixed and we dont have much time i already finished 2 months but i cant wait for one more month we want to get married immedaitely so where should i marry should v marry in arya samaj or just go to a temple and get married his parents does not know about me please help me out plz

2006-12-12 18:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by Issha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like throughout the day are you constantly thinking about your appearance? Is it normal to ALWAYS be thinking about it and constantly checking mirrors?

2006-12-12 18:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havent seen my boyfriend for about 10 days now(ever since his daughter(17) came and stayed at his). She is known as a trouble maker. In this time he hasnt hardly been in touch and hasnt bothered to come and chat with me at work to come and let me know where i stand(i had to go to him). He told me to give him space and it's like he couldnt wait to get away from me fast enough. He mentioned that his daughter was calling him a perv and that going out with me because he's a bit older,so now i'm wondering if she's got him thinking and now he dont want to be with me because of what she said. I havent met her but i'm already starting not to like her. Should i forget about him or wait and see what happens?should i be distant with him at the xmas work lunch next week?

2006-12-12 18:46:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and i met these 2 guys at a concert, and we kinda hit it off. one of the guys & my friend started emailing back & forth and he asked for my phone number so he could give it to his friend, which she(my friend) did. does this mean anything? or should i just not bother with it?

2006-12-12 18:45:47 · 8 answers · asked by nightowl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 18:42:34 · 13 answers · asked by Cheers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If men feel like they can say whether or not they like it, and even are open enough to say why they don't, and hence giving their girlfriend some huge complex, then WHY should women be made to do it on a regular basis? It is only maybe 4 out of 10 times I do it to my husband that I want to do it, mostly I feel obligated to do it because he wants it and acts like he'll die if he doesn't get it. Why are men entitled to it and why is it a privilege for women? This is totall bunk if you ask me, and I've been told if I could bottle em and sell em I'd be a millionaire, and judging from different reactions over the last 15 years, I'd have to say thats about right. So whats the big deal?

2006-12-12 18:42:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Eight on the Budweiser scale? Please let me know, thanks!

2006-12-12 18:41:38 · 16 answers · asked by whrldpz 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok then answer me this!?
i posted a question about someone who drowned her 5 kids....how can anyone claim or believe that she has Mental depression problems when...she saw her son run down the hall because he saw his mother drowning his baby sister how could she run after him and catch him and drown him if she didnt know what she was doing!...or she waited till her husband left to do this crime! how can she be mentally depressed? she knew what she was doing! now shes getting of just by goen to a mental house! let me ask you this!! if she was your BABYSITTER and she drowned your kid and turned around and said she was depressed would you be happy knowing she was getting mental help instead of jail time!!!!!

2006-12-12 18:40:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-12 18:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This might sound crazy, but I am not in love with my husband and I am trying to figure out a way to get out of the marriage without destroying my kids. My husband (before we got married) put on a fake persona for about 2 years. It seemed like as soon as we married, the real him came out. I realized I married an imposter, but as a child of divorce, I am afriad of what it will do to my kids. I have threatened to divorce him over and over again, but he throws the kids in my face and that I am too quick to give up. I am just not in love with him. I loved the fake him he pretended to be, but not him. I don't know if I should just be miserable in the marriage for the children's sake, or leave and be able to date a breathe again. I was kind of hoping that he wasn't in love with me either, but everytime I tell him I don't love him, he tells me I am wrong and that if he loves me, I should love him. I am tired of being in this antagonistic sexless marriage. What would you suggest I do?

2006-12-12 18:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. Chick 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having a date with a doctor , he's only in his 20s this year. so i thot he may be the decent and mummy's boy type. Do u think it would scare him and leave him a bad impression of me wearing a halter neck top and silver hoop earings on our 1st meeting? and plus im having quite a fashionable short hair, alittle punkish but not too boyish. will he freak out thinking im those indecent gals????? do all doctors like feminine woman??????

2006-12-12 18:37:10 · 13 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Singles & Dating

i talked to this girl over the phone that was at my sisters house that thought she knew me and than that night i have a dream that her and my wife to be had a 3 way. ive never met this girl and im not into 3 ways. and my wife to be isnt either. so i know its not like a wet dream it dosent turn me on i was just wondering if it had some underlining meaning please if you have any thoughts let me know. oh and ive never cheated on anygirl i was rasied by my sister and i fully respect women. and me and my girl are getting married soon planning the wedding andstuff.

2006-12-12 18:35:57 · 9 answers · asked by olinstephens 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone found true friends when you were older, the kind that you will trust your life to? Like the kind that you would lend $10000 to and you knew, you just knew that they would give you that money back no matter what, even if it took them a long time?

Someone that wasn't their spouse.

2006-12-12 18:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i get loose in watever i try to do , my i have lots of responsibilties n i am absaluely bankcrupt. i dont have money but do have lots of responsilbility. I am not much educated n dont have better salary .I am lossing my confident. i pretend do be smart n strong but from inside i feel iam so dump cant do anything right for my family n i am such n loser. I didnt even said my bf about how i feel eactly bcoz he will think i am to eamotional or week to handle situations in life
I dont want any sympathy plz just want to now how i could handle this finacial disaster awwfull sityuation thank u

2006-12-12 18:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by shabana o 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 18:34:42 · 12 answers · asked by ShyTahir 2 in Friends

a guy called me last sunday he is coool , naughty but i donot know him shall i talk to him

2006-12-12 18:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by naughty angel 1 in Singles & Dating

really beautifull girl and had too many bf's so she had more experience than avarage girls and at least more than me .
somehow got to get her on a date and to the cinema and now going out again so how could I impress her ?

2006-12-12 18:33:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of keeping my last name and adding his on-- but when we have kids i just want them to have his last name -- i don't want them to deal with having a HUGE last name. I don't know what is best -- I feel like everything i have done so far has been under my name -- plus i am the only one left in the family with our last name -- what are the options - what did you do? I know i want to have the same last name as my hubby and kids - but i don't want to completely give mine up!

thanks!

2006-12-12 18:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 18:32:04 · 21 answers · asked by mm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for 3 months. He is the one who chased after me, he told me he really liked me, he called me twice a day, he saw me every time he could, and he told me he saw us having serious potential. I responded to these events but I swear he was the one initiating. Recently he told me that he had just gotten out of a serious relationship, and was worried that we were going too fast. He basically told me he still really likes me and wants to maintain dating, just not necessarily as often, or as committed, and then in the future we could get more serious when he was ready. I got really hurt and mad. I feel like he just doesn't like me anymore. Was he being honest about his feelings and actually likes me still or was this his lame way of ending it?

2006-12-12 18:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 18:30:28 · 20 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Friends

2006-12-12 18:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by sidh 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get back with my gf. We broke up because she cant commit to the relationship. I know she still have feeling for me. But she just do not want to have a relationship right now. She once told me that she will feel very stressed if there are people waiting for her. She tell me to take a break but i screw it. I told her that we should just break. I was rather angry at there time. I cry and called her on the phone. she told me that she wasnt ready to commit. How can i get her back?

2006-12-12 18:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Confused123 1 in Singles & Dating

Fiance' has said for past year he loves me , then all of a sudden he claims he has not loved me just cared for me and then he tells me if his ex wife would ask him back he would have to really think about it ., Said it has not been brought up to date but yes he does love her still and is not over her . He has asked me to give him time to figure out what he wants. I deeply love this man , and even though I do not feel his ex wife shares the type of love that I have for him , I feel his happiness is the most important part of the puzzle. In the meantime , I am trying to stay postive and re focus my energy and time in different areas of my life , it is still the most painful experience I have encountered, I am just sick , and confused... He had just told me 1 hour prior to telling me he wanted his space that he "Loved me" .. Need advice please ..

2006-12-12 18:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating