I'm having a date with a doctor , he's only in his 20s this year. so i thot he may be the decent and mummy's boy type. Do u think it would scare him and leave him a bad impression of me wearing a halter neck top and silver hoop earings on our 1st meeting? and plus im having quite a fashionable short hair, alittle punkish but not too boyish. will he freak out thinking im those indecent gals????? do all doctors like feminine woman??????
2006-12-12 18:37:10 · 13 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u dont know until u get ther. he could totally seem one way and be the other. jjust hope for the best and if it doesnt work out, oh well!
2006-12-12 18:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by guitarcrazy408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on how long the two of you have known each other.
Does he already have the impression of you as yourself, with your style of clothing and accessories? If he does, and is still committed to going out with you, then that means that he likes you that way. Nobody would go on a date with someone they didn't like.
And definitely NO, not all doctors like feminine women. That's just hearsay, not to mention an incorrect inference. Just because he's a doctor doesn't mean his taste is limited to decent girls wearing Oxford shirts and black loafers.
But if you're really that worried about your style of dress...I don't know how you would see this, but you might not want to appear to come on too strong just on the first date. It's fine to just dress like yourself, but think about what message you want - if any - to be indicated from your style of dress. All depends on you.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 02:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going on a date or trying to catch a fish?
Wear what you would wear if you were going to the same place ALONE.
You sound way too desperate here. He's just a doc - not king of some country - let alone yours.
Do you really want someone if you have to be someone else to impress him? C'mon - take it easy and just be you.
2006-12-13 02:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Go and meet him with the "What you see is what you get" kind of attitude. It is always good to be yourself. If he will like you then fine. If he won't like you then fine also. He is not the only doctor in town.
What if you wear something that you are not comfortable and doesn't speak of you and then he liked it and expects you to be like that always? Then you have put yourself in a situation which you have to put up with the rest of your life. Difficult, isn't it?
So, go and meet him and be yourself.
all the best.
2006-12-13 02:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear whatever you feel comfortable in.
Its not his eyes that would stay with you, its his heart that needs the proof that he loves you. Show your real personality and see if he can accept who you are inside. It doesnt mean that you look a bit punkish, your not nice or sweet...
get it?
2006-12-13 02:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of date going out to eat wear something more like a hot black dress or if your going to the bars or with a group of people wear something not flashy. since he is a doctor he knows how to judge people well be your self and he probably a very mature guy.
2006-12-13 02:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by olinstephens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot generalize about doctors. What you need to know is whether THIS doctor likes feminine women.
2006-12-13 02:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i know a doctor who's wife looks a lot like you sound, dress type and all. lol. besides, what guy don't think a halter top ain't hot? if he's put off, he probably ain't your type anyways.
2006-12-13 02:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to pretend to be someoneelse that is not you, what is the point of dating him?
just be yourself and wear anything you feel comfortable with.
if he doesn't like the way you are, that means he is not the right person for you.
JUST BE YOURSELF!
good luck hunny.
2006-12-13 02:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They kinda do because most doctors come from conservative rich families. Your avatar doesn't make you look punk at all...
2006-12-13 02:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋