i get loose in watever i try to do , my i have lots of responsibilties n i am absaluely bankcrupt. i dont have money but do have lots of responsilbility. I am not much educated n dont have better salary .I am lossing my confident. i pretend do be smart n strong but from inside i feel iam so dump cant do anything right for my family n i am such n loser. I didnt even said my bf about how i feel eactly bcoz he will think i am to eamotional or week to handle situations in life
I dont want any sympathy plz just want to now how i could handle this finacial disaster awwfull sityuation thank u
2006-12-12 18:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by shabana o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Shabana,
You are totally WRONG in telling that you are a looser. See you have 11% best answers, I have only 2% :-). So at least I proved that you are better than me in answering people. I could find one good point in you from the miniscule information I have about you.
I am pretty sure, dear, that you are having many qualiities. You are just feeling down AT THE MOMENT. I am also feeling that so many things are going wrong with me because I am sad due to heart break (you see, you have a b/f, I dont have a girl, one more point). Nobody is looser in life. The biggest gain is life itself.
Go and make your way on your own. Talk to your guy, family, friends, chat here and FIGHT. Remember, you have ONLY ONE LIFE. So fight and enjoy.
2006-12-12 18:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start working on yourself from the inside out. Start reading, taking classes and rebuild yourself and your life. You can do it if you have determination. The confidence will come with accomplishing things. Take time to work on yourself and be the best person you can be and remember that's quite a lot.
Don't let people put you down. It's easy for women to get put down so much that they lose all their confidence.
Find a solid family member to help you and go from there.
I've been there and done it myself. I was a mess once with no confidence and no life, no money and I thought everyone either hated me or dis'd me. It took time, but now I have everything I could ever want.
2006-12-13 02:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cause u have too many respondsilbility that u can handle. Maybe if u cut back on some and just do the things that need to be done like getting another job nd make sure u are meeting the goals of that job and other kinds maybe u should just wait till u have time.
Don't take too much respondsibility that u can't handle...
2006-12-13 02:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evey problem g/f relationship, family or even marriage. What you need to do is work harder and ful of determination. Even though people would think that you are lousy proved to them that you can handle every problem or obsticle ahead of you. Every problem had an answer don't give up. Find a part time work to improve your financial needs and shred your problem with your b/f he might help to motivates you. good luck
2006-12-13 02:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, hey, hey shabana... dont feel like that.. everyone on this planet also feels like what you are experiencing... keep on believin God has a purpose for you just be patience enough.. theres a reason beyond that.... God bless cheer up! life is beautiful and full of suprises!
2006-12-13 02:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by muttley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get by in life is to know people... The more people you know the more hook-ups you get. Thats how I got my job through referrals...
2006-12-13 02:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not being so materialistic and be happy with where you are at and what u have. if you want better salary, u need to work harder for it and prove that you deserve it.
2006-12-13 02:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some education in spelling and grammar might benefit you.
2006-12-13 02:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have faith...Winners never quit and quitters never win...
2006-12-13 02:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by u_olwez_hav_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to commit suicide.
2006-12-13 02:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋